I love her and we went out and broke up already cause She didnt feel the same way as me. She feel of me as just a good friend. 2 weeks after we broke up she had a new boyfriend(my own friend). Then now we are quit far from each other but still a very good friend. She just broke up with that guy for a months now. Im talking with her and email her very often. Wat to do next? Im willing to do anything.
2007-10-01 13:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
We went out for a very short time before she found out that she just tought of me as a friend and she also in love with one of ma friend. 2 weeks after we broke up she actually went out with him. I love her enough to stand smiling at them and went back to ma room and cried. The most important thing for me is her happiness. But im not a loser. Now she broke up with him for 2 months and we are still very good friends. The problem is that I am graduated already but she still in school. We are very far from each other now.(unbelieveably far)
We email each other frequencly. She still thinks of me as a friend but its my chance now. Want some ideas PLEASE!
2007-10-01 14:00:01 · update #1
Oh! and before I went out with her, we were very good friends. I never expected that I will fell in love with but then I did... with all ma heart.
2007-10-01 14:05:08 · update #2
Hi there. I am sorry to hear your trouble. It is a common one for both men and women who feel they are in love with someone who returns there affections with nothing more than friendship.
First of all, consider all the good qualities about yourself. Don't do this in a concieted way, but rather in a manner that will allow you to recognize the positive things that make you a special individual.
After doing these things, ask yourself what the good things are about this woman you are so fond of. Is she kind, smart, beautiful, motivated, family oriented? What makes you attractive to you.
Now consider why the two of you are good friends. I think if you understand the bond your friendship is built on, you'll better recognize how the two of you could create a romance.
Now that you've thought of all these things, there is one more simple step you have to take: ASK HER WHY SHE FEELS CLOSE TO YOU, WHAT MAKES YOU HER GOOD FRIEND.
Women love to communicate and feel understood. Asking her this question will open up a discussion that will let you see why she is fond of you as a friend, and allow you a chance to share with her your hope of building on those qualities to form a deeper relationship.
If it seems right, tell her you want to be her best friend, that you want to spend your days getting to know her, mentally, emotionally and physcially. Tell her you truly treasure her as an individual and that she has a special place in your heart. TELL HER FRIENDSHIP IS THE BASIS TO ANY LOVING RELATIONSHIP.
If this is ment to be, talking about these things can be the beginning of falling in love.
Good luck!
2007-10-01 13:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Doubled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am sorry to say u a word which may hurt you badly but am sure that you will take these words.She is not the only one in ur life may be who knows u get a better one in ur life than the one whom u broken up recently .
2007-10-02 17:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the Buddha Maitreya.
2007-10-01 13:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by elbojuan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a life
2007-10-01 16:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by yusufribadu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must be knowing her likings, do accordingly
2007-10-01 18:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋