i lost it last week. To my best guy friend.
2007-10-01 12:46:16 · 34 answers · asked by piper 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm 13 years old
2007-10-01 12:50:00 · update #1
There's not really any easy way to tell her. Sit her down when it's just the two of you and tell her. If you can't tell her to her face then you could email her or something. Be ready for any possible reaction, she may be happy, angry, disappointed etc.
I personally wouldn't tell my Mum that sort of thing. It is your personal business, providing you're over the legal age.
2007-10-01 12:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell your mom that? I lost my virginity at 13 too but I didn't feel the need to go running to mom and say, "Guess what?"
2007-10-02 08:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my parents because eventually I knew they would find out. I was scared to tell them I simply told them it was my choice and I would like them to respect my decision. I also told them I understood the risks as well. I am still currently active and my parents know about it (and of course they get very concern ) but realize it was my choice. It took time for them to get use to it as well. Keep in mind I was over 18 when I lost my virginity.
2007-10-01 13:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hey Ya'll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you're thinking about this, tell her you have something important to tell her and you have alot of questions. Even if you know the answers, stil ask. I bet you're scared she'll get mad yelling and screaming. You have to turn it into a curious about life thing and ask questions. Maybe turn on the water works too. I don't think it will hurt to cry.
2007-10-02 10:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur rele close to her and u feel like u HAVE to tell her then jst in a quite moment when its jst u and her and explain it slowly, (when shes in a good mood) tell her there was no complications and u of course used a condom or wat ever u used to not get pregnant. and that u were fine with it, that it felt right and that u have no regrets, dont worry her for no reason, and if u arent that close to ur mum in these years then theres no need for u to tell her..maybe u can when ur older, it mite jst slip out :D
2007-10-02 02:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Adelina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is something that your mom might get mad about but you need to say it. Maybe email her about it because then she can come and talk to her or ask her when she lost hers. That wil bring up the conversation.
2007-10-01 15:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is something very personal. and honestly i would never tell my mom anything like that cus she would freak. so you dont really have to tell her, somethings are best to keep personal. but if you realy wanna tell her. get her to come into your room and close the door. say something like mom i wanna tell you something. i dont know how oyu are going to react, but i want you to know. i hope oyu wont be mad at me but......... and go from there. be perpared for any reaction possible.
2007-10-01 13:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you need to tell her? If she needs to know, then just come out and tell her, but, I can tell you this, she doesnt want to know and, has no need to know just what youve been doing.
Hope that you were careful and that there will be no surprises in the future.....
2007-10-01 13:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by snowbirdbabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything unless you and your mom have an open relationship.but when you go to a gynecologist with your .mom they will tell you if your a virgin or not .so its your choice.
2007-10-01 14:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by syd. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u really wanna tell her?
i know that if i lost mine now, and im almost 16, i wouldnt have the guts to tell my mom, because even though the rents are divorced, she would tell dad, and he would kill my bf.
2007-10-01 12:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋