It is subconscious. The things we don't like about ourselves that others also do reminds us of this and makes us aware, even subconsciously. It is our shame of our imperfections and when we see it in others it triggers episodes of self-loathing. It also triggers the coping mechanisms of rationalization, denial, and self-righteousness, leading us to judge them. We have to make a conscious effort to be aware of this to remain non-judgemental.
2007-10-01 12:40:58
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answered by mari athenan 3
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They become what they hate....very common. People also like to find some one else to blame for their issues when the problem is usually the person who's looking back at them in the mirror.
2007-10-01 12:05:07
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answered by tas211 6
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It's to hard for most to work on themselves and actually change a bad behavior. Most people are mediocre and just fine w/ that fact.
2007-10-01 12:18:34
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answered by Sharisse F 4
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Seems to be quite a problem here in the U.S.
I was hoping it was only a local issue rather than a human defect.
2007-10-01 12:12:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi there !
Yeah...it is round and round and round...
something like a mirror image....
can't help it....one of the umpteen number of human weaknesses ...
best wishes !
2007-10-01 13:02:49
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answered by suresh k 6
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Ur wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to correct
2007-10-02 00:13:26
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answered by shabana o 2
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yes
2007-10-01 18:33:39
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answered by Rana 7
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mm, I dunno, I complain quite a bit, but usually I'm just kidding around. :|
2007-10-01 12:05:54
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answered by Ting Tang, Tator, & Raven 3
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