i really want to get pregnant so much and i dont really know why but i want to know what it is like to be pregnant and i want to have a baby because i am positive i am mature enogh to raise a kid
2007-10-01 10:14:14 · 26 answers · asked by Megan S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
you aren't even old enough to get a job let alone to have a kid wait until you over the age of 18 married with a good job and your own home to have a kid. you are a child yourself.
2007-10-01 10:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Deana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way. I felt like that when I was 13, however if you feel that you are mature enough to have a child - you should know that at 13 you have no business bringing a child into this world. You may be the most mature 13 year old in the world, but at 13 you need to be having the time of your life and being a mother is great in alot of wonderful ways, but it is also the hardest thing that you will ever do.
You will have all the time in the world to be a mother when you are older - don't worry about it now when you are so young. Also children need two parents. And I am sure that any 13 year old boy is not mature enough to have be a father.
Wait until you are in your twenties and have found a man that you can raise children with and will be a great father to your child. Wait until you have experienced life and can truly give your baby what you need to.
2007-10-01 10:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why at 13 would you even think you are mature enough to raise a baby? That is not a mature thought at your age. You should not even be having sex! Live your life as the child you are and leave the grown up thoughts and experiences to the grown ups until you are at least old enough to get a good job and a place of your own. What happens when the baby needs to go to the doctor? you are not even old enough to drive it there.
2007-10-01 11:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by ceh336 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 ther is no exscuses to wanting a baby at this age. You are still a child yourself. You need to grow up have fun in your life and worry about making babies later on in life. The time will come that you will have a child and it will be in your memories forever. You don't have a steady job to even take care of this baby so then your parents would be stuck raising your child because you have no job or no way to support it. You are not mature you are a baby yourself. You can wonder and do it later on in life. You cant take care of a child , go to school and get your education while taking care of a baby.
I know I was the child taking care of a child and going to school working 2 jobs to support my son. STOP, THINK, AND GET YOUR EDUCATION!!!! you don't need babies now!
2007-10-01 11:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by lostinlove1919 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, you are not mature enough to have a child, YOU ARE A CHILD. Once you have a baby, your life is over. No more friends, no more going out, no more nothing but taking care of your kid. You wont go to prom you wont be able to go on spring break, you wont get to enjoy being a teenager or anything. Dont be stupid, wait until you are much older and do things with your life, like go to college get married, travel. I have 2 kids and im 27 yrs old and i struggle everyday andi rasie my kids alone and i still need a ton of help
2007-10-01 10:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal to THINK about it- but not normal to have a child at your age. You are too damn young to be even thinking about a child.. You need to worry about finishing school so you will be able to take care of the child. You also better be lucky that this is only a DREAM because once a child is born-your dream will be REALITY and it is not a joke. You are not mature enough because if you was you would ALREADY know that you are not ready for a child. Don't rush your life and let nature take its course.... I could go on and on with this one--(you can't even work yet to take care of a kid)...Girl, let me stop before my pressure goes up again......
2007-10-01 10:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by dressycandles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey. We're the same age. =]
Look, I understand that maybe you really
love children, but that should be all that it is.
We're so young right now, we haven't even
gotten the opportunity to live out OUR childhood,
never mind create someone else's!
If you get pregnant now, you'll never have the
chance to be a crazy teenager, you'll never
be able to have fun as a college student, and your
parents would probably wind up taking care of
the kid. Plus your kid would only be 13 years
younger than you, and you guys would have some
disciplinary issues.
You probably just like babies. Maybe you can
take up a babysitting job, or do part-time work
at a day care center. I assure you, after seeing
how much work babies are, (trust me i have a little
sister), you won't want one until you're older.
Plus, how would the baby feel when it gets older?
It would have to tell all of its friends that mommy
had him when she was 13! Can you imagine how
embarassing that would be for you?
Trust me, a baby right now would totally ruin
your life. You and me should just enjoy being
teenagers.
Flirting with guys is awesome.
Let's just try not to get impregnated
by them, okay? lol.
Good luck. =]
2007-10-01 10:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by allisonnnn :] 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no. it's not normal. at 13 you should be having dreams about boys, and how u can clear up any pimples on your face, you should be reading fashion magazines, try new makeup, and try new things out.
trust me, u are not mature to raise a kid when you're a kid yourrself. U JUST GOT YOUR PERIOD LIKE 1 YEAR AGO!!!
give it 10 years. when you're 23, get back to me and let me know if you had the same mentality as u did when u were 10!!! i bet you a dollar that you'll be thinking differently.
2007-10-01 10:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't even know what you want, think about it I am 25 years old and it took me up until now to find myself, enjoy your childhood, stay in school how do you plan to take care of your baby. Where are you going to get the money to raise a baby with your maturity. Don't make a mistake you might regret later take your time and be a child.
2007-10-01 10:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by hotgyrl29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey ur 13 ur not old enough to have baby u might think ur mature enough to have a kid am 16 and I know am not ready, Ur with that baby 24/7 try and take care of a real baby and I bet u will not b happy. If u want a baby please wait Don't throw that baby's and ur life away.
2007-10-01 10:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to some people cause i used to that but really its just a stage in life. Try keeping that out of your head!! cause your not really old enough to do that! And try thinking or dreaming of a 13 yearold would think. Like hang out with friends or do something with your mom. Wait till your 18 then think about it!!
2007-10-01 10:22:38 · answer #11 · answered by ILoveHimm. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋