i'm like...a little under 15, and... i think i'm a bisexual. i have a boyfriend, but... i find myself checking out girls, a lot. seeing a chick on chick scene really turns me on, and i sometimes find myself wanting to like... idk, uh...go out with a girl. am i really a bi? what does the term, bicurious mean, could i be that? i'm just really confused about my sexual orientation, any help would be appreciated soooo much, thank you.
2007-10-01 09:52:12 · 21 answers · asked by we_are_waiting 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sweetie, "a little under 15" means that you're 14 (or younger) and this is going to be a confusing time for you as it is without trying to figure out if you're bi-sexual or not. Try taking life as it comes...and instead of running out to "find girls to make out with" or get yourself wrapped up in some religion telling you that you're a sinner...accept that you are who you are. And if the opportunity to be with another young lady ever presents itself to you...go with what you feel is right. And DON'T let your boyfriend talk you into a threesome or letting him watch....that situation can only make matters worse when you are trying to figure out what's going on inside your own head. Good luck, honey!
2007-10-01 10:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by J.Me 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off what you are going through is totally normal and many people go through the same thing. You need to decide this for yourself. No one can decide for you although some may try. It is a discovery journey meaning it will not last a week or a month it will take some time. The actual meaning of Bisexual is that you are attracted to both men and women. For most people who are ignorant and don't understand alternative sexualities they believe this is solely sexual. That can be true but often is not. It usually means that and also a soul connection or emotional connection. Bi-curious is someone who is questioning if they are bisexual. Often times this could be an experimental phase. It does not have to be so do not do anything you are uncomfortable with. Sexuality is very complicated and takes time to understand. Honestly most of us don't and will never fully understand it. Just know that there is help out there. You can talk to a therapist, or if there is a GSA in your school. Using these outlets you will not face your struggle alone. Good luck and remember it will take time and you need to discover it for yourself. Hope I helped.
2007-10-01 17:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gone through the same thing. It's okay to be curios, but sooner or later you will have to decide whether it's boys or girls. Perhaps if you try going out with more boys and fight the temptation of women, you'll be alright. Try to increase the number of men in your life. Don't become a slut or anything, just make some friends that are boys.
2007-10-01 17:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by dumby1012000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That does not make you Bisexual, just Bi curious and Bi honestly is just when you can not chose if you lie girls or guys. Bi curious is almost exactly what it says Bi curious is when you are curious about being straight or a lesbian. You are I am going to say Bi curious.
2007-10-01 16:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bi-curious is when u find have sex with the same gender as u interesting and u would like to try it. The only way to know if ur bisexual is to try it and if you like it and still want ur bf then ur bi if u prefer one or the other then ur gay or straight. u'll know when the time comes.
2007-10-01 17:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it more time...how long have you felt that feeling towards females? just because your curious doesn't mean you are bisexual, its ok to like to look at other woman and think about how attractive (or not) they are. We all check out women and it's ok...studies have shown that women enjoy watching pornographic movies with females only, looking at women nude pics...it's alright! anyway however you feel is what you are, only you can determine if you are bi or not.
2007-10-01 16:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by My baby. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask a girl that you know might do this like a lesbian or a bisexual girl and make out or you know more than that and see if you like it.
2007-10-01 17:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Shawna E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bi-curious means you are curious about it, but not quite sure yet because you haven't experienced it. Whether you are or not, don't try to label yourself yet. Just see how you feel after it happens. My wife was 27 before she finally realized she was bi and not just bi-curious.
2007-10-01 16:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You maybe or it might just be something you want to try and if its not for you go back to men. It is nothing to be ashamed of maybe talk to someone who is qualified, visit your GP whom will ref you to someone who u can talk to, if not have a look on internet.
2007-10-01 16:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probbly are. =)
if you get turned on by a girl on girl scene and not grossed out... theres a good chance. try it out. find a girl who is in the same situation as you, make out, and see how you feel. ;]
2007-10-01 16:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by LoLo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋