Can LOVE trully make anyone UNDERSTAND?
2007-10-01 08:22:21 · 32 answers · asked by enki 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I do not know anymore hehehe
I wish I did know
I always thought when love happens its not planned i remember there was this man that i liked and someone very close to them said that he was not ready for marriage at least three years hahehehe which was bull in the end
You can't plan love it just happens you can't stop love especially when it is mutual between two people remember Enki we are not always promised another day its never good to wait on love or plan it ............
IT JUST HAPPENS
2007-10-01 08:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rita 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
First, you ask 'Can love wait?'
No, not real love. When it happens it happens. It won't wait until the 'right' moment to happen. All you can do, if that is your choice, is defer responding to it or try to ignore it. Or perhaps run away from it.
Second, 'Can Love Be Planned?'
Not really. What can happen is that you meet someone you think you love or could love and you can make the effort to encourage it along (like being in the same place at the same time or getting help from people who know your target of affection, etc). If it is meant to be you are simply giving yourself better chances to speed up the process to let the other person know you're interested. However, if is is not meant to be your efforts will not make it happen. You can plan all you want and it will mean nothing if the other person doesn't feel the same way towards you.
Third, you ask 'Can love truly make anyone understand?'
As far as I know love can not MAKE anyone do anything, much less understand anything. What real love can do is LET YOU understand. It opens your heart and your mind and awakens your soul to what love can offer you. What you do with this insight, this new perspective, is up to you.
2007-10-01 17:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Watson 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for the first part I think that love can wait at least until we meet the right person. Next can love be planned. I do not think so. I think we can help it out a little by picking some people through out life that we like and date but I don't think that love can be controlled or planned because I think it is an instant hit. when we have met the right person we will know. Last can love really make people understand. That all depends on understanding what. if it is to understand the person or to get to know them then yes but if for anything else then know.
2007-10-02 16:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Of all things, more than any other, It surely can't be planned! I think that would give us each a perfect life.
Love can wait as long as it is genuine love that a person seeks - not an emotionally exciting carnal masquerade. Some are blessed with the call of fate without the wait. Others have to work in life with every new turn to come to capacity for genuine love that knows no fear and no conditions.
It may take quite a few hits to get to the real thing. True love is THE one quintessential that makes for truly understanding others and oneself.
2007-10-01 11:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Planned? I don't know about that. But I think you can give it a push in the right direction! When I was sick of the dating scene (didn't take long), and all the talk about "hook-ups." I was ready for a real relationship... with the right guy. One night I sat down at my computer, and checked out Love@aol.com. I mean I really checked it out! I went through over 600 profiles. I can tell you I was disgusted with the contents of many of them (superficial morons!). I wanted a real man, not a little boy! I found 2 guys that based on their profiles (if they were actually being honest) would be worth while. I took my time wrote up an email, sent the same email to both of them. I got a response from both of them! One of them had to go out of town on business, so I ended up chatting with the other in IM. We then had a first date, and well, the rest is history, that was 6 1/2 years ago. We nare move in love each day! Now my "qualifications" of tyhe 2 I chose were not based on looks and money. Don't get me wrong, that is nice, as a bonus, but if that is what you are basing a new relationship on, you are looking to fail. So did I plan love.. kind of. I was ready to be in love, and I put forth the effort to find the right guy. So yes, part of it was planned, as much as you really can. But then you have to wait to see if the chemistry and magic is there.
2007-10-01 12:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by CouponMaster 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is a circumstance much like getting struck by lightening. Sure, we can look at someone as a physical attraction, but love encompasses much more than that. Love can wait because it has to, it should be patient. We should take the time to get to know the other person, their commonalities, their character, exclusive of physical attributes, first. Love can overcome anything negative. Anything.. It brings out the best in us, the most passionate responses in us, but it can also magnify mistakes if some are made because of the potential consequences in the relationship. Tests will always come to pass. No relationship is perfect. It's how we mutually deal with them that makes a relationship and a love stronger. It can also enhance our understanding of ourselves, one another, and others, as well.
2007-10-01 11:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, Love can't wait.
What could keep love waiting ?
Nothing in this world can bound Love and make it wait for you or someone.
Love can't be planned.
Since what you plan is not Love.
Love, true love can not be bound or contaminated by space, space blocks and time.
If you love, that is if you truly love, you love.
What you can do is stop expression of love for the time being.
You can defer the expression of love to a later time.
You can plan how you would like to express your love.
But Love itself ....
you can neither keep it waiting nor plan it out.
To answer your last question.
Love can make someone understand when that person too loves you.
Yes then your love could be understood Or even better yet,
your love can make that person understand something you want that person to understand !
So great is the power of love.
There is a saying or an aphorism :
"Love someone who loves you".
Over time I find this aphorism so true !
2007-10-02 21:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No love cannot wait, love is never planned it's always just something that happens at any given moment. It is one of the most beautiful things that anyone can ever experience but it can also be one of the hardest things someone has to deal with. While love can help you to look further than the pic presented it doesn't make it any easier. Love requires patience, trust, etc. there is a lot of work to being in love and loving someone including trying to understand them and the things that they do but because love is such a strong emotion, it is unpredictable in us. It has the power to make us really happy but it also has the power to make us really sad as with anything of value in life it is very desired to have but because of it's high value their comes with it plenty of risks too. In my opinion though it is truly worth all the risks in the world for there is nothing so greater than love.
2007-10-01 14:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by fire and ice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky question especially since I'm split on this one. LOVE, like Life, is what you make it. We didn't know what we were getting ourselves into in this life but we're here and making our mark in our own way, and LOVE is like that.
The person in LOVE can wait but LOVE can take over the person swaying them in another direction, so no, love can't wait. LOVE can definitely be planned and I ought to know because I planned what type of man I would fall in love with from his personality to how he looked . . . two years later this man was living next door to me. And guess what -- we began going out almost immediately, and LOVE not waiting to be married.
LOVE can make a person Overstand everything because in Love there are expectations. Expectations for Love lay out the foundation for what is Planned, which helps you to Overstand (or understand). When a couple is open and honest with each other from the very beginning by getting to know everything about each other, spill out what they want from their relationship & where you hope it goes, and try to find some sort of Understanding for the relationship of who they are as a couple and individually . . . LOVE is UNDERSTANDING.
2007-10-01 13:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone and they love you, I think you understand eachother pretty well by then. But if trust is broken and the love is doubted, I think the understanding breaks down. True love is patient and will wait.
About love being planned. It sounds too forceed than and love is kind.
Can love wait? Sure it can. I'd wait for my true love. I'd rather do that than settle for less. I wouldn't let someone go just because I had to wait for them.
Can love be planned? I don't think so. I think it needs more freedom than that. You can't force someone to love you.
Can love truly make anyone understand? I think so. If you truly love someone, I think you will try to understand.
2007-10-02 16:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by I don't know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋