should i call him or what for him to call me???
2007-10-01 07:36:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're not really saying what the argument was about, just that it was big. If you're old enough to be married, you're old enough to settle your problems as adults. Therefore, since he has not called you (I know he hasn't because otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question), you should be a grown up and call him. Unless, him being out of the house is what you want.
Do not beg, nag, or argue... Just ask him if he will be home this evening, at what time and that you'll be waiting for him.
There can't be room for stubborness in order to find a solution to your problem, if it's a solution that you & him both desire.
2007-10-01 07:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by AlS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I know what the argument was about, it helps to know the situation before answering. But I would let him cool off, thats what he needs to do. If he wants to come home he will, you won't be able to talk him into it. Don't try to stalk him down and just wait until you both can calmly sit down and talk things through. He will eventually come home to either talk or get his things. If he takes his things when your out or home, that means it's over and if there is no talking to him about it, then don't say a word and leave until he's done packing. Say your peace and have closure. Wish you the best of luck.,
2007-10-01 07:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by sun day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a similar situation, and what you do depends on what outcome you want. There is nothing wrong with calling him and letting him know you want to work it out. It all depends on what the argument was about and what you want out of it.
If he is anything like my husband, he just wants some space and time to think about it, and will be back, but you should call and let him know the door is open. Let him know you want him back.
2007-10-01 07:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that you were unreasonable, more your fault than his, do you feel you should you have handled it differently? If you have regrets.....from the above, not because the argument ended up with him leaving....then call and apologize. Otherwise, if he was in the wrong, leave well enough alone. Hopefully he will come to his senses.....and grow up. If he doesn't, you are better off without him because you will be walking on eggshells for the rest of your married life.
2007-10-01 07:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by transplanted_fireweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask when you should expect him to come home. That's all. This will let him know that he is welcome to come home. Once he is home, ask him to set aside some time to talk about the problem/argument.
2007-10-01 07:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you want to call your husband do so because someone has to call in order for you two speak.
Dont let this pass to long.
best of luck
2007-10-01 07:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to work things out it doesn't matter who calls whom first. What matters is that you both still love each other and you have a problem to solve. You can't solve it if you let your ego be your guide.
2007-10-01 07:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you owe him an apology? If so, call him and apologize. But don't beg him to come home. Just say you are sorry and leave it at that.
The rest is up to him.
2007-10-01 07:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He left home because of an argument? Are you kidding or is he really that immature?
Do you want to reconcile with him? If so, then call; if not, then don't.
2007-10-01 07:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
really depends on the arguement!! if you love him and you can't see your life w/o him. you better call him. all it takes is a lil understanding, communication and work. is he worth it??
2007-10-01 07:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋