Moral Dillema?

Question

My hubbys best friend (bob) , has a fiancee and a 7 year old son. He recently got off on a satutory rape charge. He was accused of raping a 15 year old girl..he is 30.
I dislike his wife a lot..she is very permiscuos..no lets say a lying ****. anyway, as much as i dislike her I am faced with a dilema. I recently found out that her hubby slept with this 15 year old, the girl got mad at bob when he wouldn'tleave his wife and kid,pressed charges..anyway, I know he slept with her. I also no this wife has cheated as well, but way in the past.
I am feeling like i should tell her what i know. Yet, i KNOW it will cause upset amoung me and MY hubby, as he is his best friend and he swore me to secrecy. I keep thinking , if i was in her possition, I would want to know.
Should i risk upset in my own family so that this ***** nows the truth about her skum sucking **** head husband?
phew!

Answer 1

Wait, so you're thinking about breaking a promise that you made to your husband? You need to run far far away from these people, look at what they are doing to your life... You need to respect what you told your husband and back out. Yes, I would want to know, but I couldn't betray my husband in order to tell a cheating wife that her husband had an affair too. You need to sit down and look at the bigger picture... They have no respect for one another, and you're looking into betraying your husband.

Answer 2

Sounds like they're perfect for each other.You and I are both in the same pickle. A very good friend of mine has been leading a secret life behind his wife's back for years. I feel the same compulsion to run to his wife and tell her all about it. It's hard to hold back juicy secrets about another person. We humans love to gossip and run are mouth about other peoples' flaws, probably to make us feel better about our self. Do the pros and cons thing if you do decide to spill the beans and go with that. Honestly i wouldn't even be friends with that kind of pervo, but than again, my friend is a drug addict. I don't want to be a drama queen with my friends so i stay quiet. But...If your friend becomes a threat to high schools and my friend to his health or life. Than yes we should tell somebody.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Please keep out of it. While you may think that his fiancé is just so naive and doesn't know about her husband's "adventures", I assure you she probably knows way more than you give her credit for (she doesn't sound like a naive type to me). What goes on in a couple's life is the couple's business, not everyone else's. Why would you risk peace in your own family over something that isn't your business to begin with? I don't know about you, but my main concern in this whole situation would be not what goes on between "Bob" and his wife, but my own husband's choice of best friends.

Answer 5

This is a friend neither of you need.

No, don't tell anyone anything. That will not solve problems but create some. It's not your place to be an informer. It sounds like you want to get back at her because you don't like her.

If it were me, these people would no longer be on my list of those I want in my home.

Answer 6

WOW, bob better wake up&smell the cofffee, I love my friends,BUT, if have a protective bond!! We discourage cheating,flirting,etc., we are all loyal to our wifes!! And we don't let cheaters,criminals, etc., in r circle!!!! WAKE UP BOB

Answer 7

Look you are talking about statutory rape here. Call the cops-you can put it down in a letter-dont sign your name, etc and let them investigate. They sound like a Jerry Springer Episode waiting to happen...

Answer 8

Your first and only duty in this is to your husband. The other two sound like they deserve each other and if it wasn't this, it would be something else. I question your husband's choice of friends, but that's really none of my business.

Answer 9

So, just to make yourself feel better, have your moment of glory, satisfy your revenge, in hurting someone, causing mayhem, you're ready to lose your hubby's respect, destroy the trust your he placed in you?
It does say a lot about you if nothing else.

Answer 10

Tell her.... Sounds like you picked the cream of the crop for a husband as well.. does he have dope dealers and murderer for friends also?