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Question

I like this guy loads ppl tell me he likes me but hes shy so he wnt ask me out , how can i get him 2 but not desperate or feel like a a** if he dnt read the signs .ive known him 4 like 2 years so plz dnt say get 2 no him coz i do really well.i dnt wanna ask him tho im shy 2 lol

thanks and im 15

Answer 1

The hardest part is asking. Just do it. After that its all gravy.

Answer 2

1. Get him on his own
2. Talk indirectly about how do people start relationships if their both shy - use yourself and him as the example though obviously change the names - ie "my friend told me about this girl and boy who have known each for years they both told friends that they liked each other blah blah ... however nothing ever happened, now that time has gone and both regret not having got together with the other, now they have drifted apart which was a real shame as your friend reckoned that they missed out on something that could have been really good "- ask him what he would do in that scenario, if he was the boy and also if he was the girl; if he doesn't know what he would do you could come up with some ways of how you would like to be asked out - say something like that you couldn't ask someone out because you would be worried theyd say no and that you couldn't imagine having to ask a boy out, not least because you are a bit shy - basically the messages you are trying to convey in your conversation with him are that you can understand how it might be tough for a guy to ask a girl out, that you understand that fear of rejection often stops people asking another out and that if someone asked you whether you said yes or no that you would respect them for having the guts to ask - then see where the conversation leads - good luck, oh yes and don't ever act desperate its a massive turn off. All the best, I'm 42!

Answer 3

look, its not very simple u have to work things out with each other it seems u both don't have communication with each other, if u don't mind he's been lieing to u all the time then for u to moving with him on i want to give some suggestions; 1. try to explain him that its a must to discuss it with u that why he is been lieing to u and can't leave her. 2. be very calm in solving this problem and during discussion. 3. on ur own try to have check for some time coz its difficult to trust him any more without making ur self comfortable on the matter. 4. if he does't give up then try to fid some fake cell friend of ur's he might get jealous and thn u can tell him how u felt. 5. finally if none of it works then talk to that girl she might b a good girl n u in the end dont find any thing coz if u will bcome comfortable with girl it will b very easy to have ur mind peace n this thought will not bother you any more. 6. if none of above works then its not the right person for u as he is obsessed with this girl or that girl is keeping ur bf in reserve as having problems with her own bf and wants some shoulder to cry on afterwards.

Answer 4

Just bring the subject up when you guys are in private. Ask him to go for a milk shake - go dutch - just in case and so that it won't be awkward if it bombs, you guys will just be two friends having shakes or coffee, whatever.

Just say someone told you or you heard it through the grapevine that he liked you as girlfirend material, and you wanted to know if it was true or not. Then depending on how he answers, either let him know that you like him as bf material, or potential bf if he says potential gf and/or maybe gf, or no just as friends then you stay where you are at and that leaves you both free with out any weirdness between you two to remain friends and look for others who are interested in dating each of you. good luck - hope this helps, and don't come on too strong, just ask like you were wondering if it was true or not.

Answer 5

Was I the one that answered??? I remember reading this.
Are you just not getting the answer you want to hear. What do you want to hear exactly? You can't make this boy like you or get him to ask you out. IF he's too shy then he has to make some changes in himself as do you. The more you ask this question the more desperate you appear. During playful banter with him just say "So, r u going 2 ask me out or what?"
If you can't even do that then you shouldn't even bother trying to have a relationship with anyone because you aren't ready.

Answer 6

if youre both too shy to even ask each other out then what the hell are you's gonna do when it comes to the holding of hands, thekissing, the....? don't even bother your wasting your time cause youre obviously not ready to start dating yet. still got some more growing up to do little girl. just cause your hormones kicked in and you've developed female assets, doesnt mean your heads mature enough to commit to a relationship

Answer 7

Somebody has to make the first move. I know it is scary and you risk rejection. But what is the worst he can tell you? No, he isn't interested? Just ask him point blank if he wants to go out or not? I'd rather be rejected than sit around waiting and wondering. Remember nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Answer 8

Just simply ask him. Ask him if he'd like to meet you at the mall to catch a movie. Be casual. Its no big deal. If he's too shy to ask you and you're too shy to ask him, nothings ever gonna get done. Don't play games, just ask him. Boys rarely catch onto "hints" and "signs". They are straight forward kind of people.

Answer 9

It may be extremely nerve wracking to ask him out, but I think that is your best way to go. He might not be asking you out because he is afraid of rejection (Or many other reasons), but you asking him out will show great confidence... and guys love that! Just do it!

Answer 10

i would say , get a friend that you both have mainly a guy to ask him if he likes you. like playing around not straight forward, if the answers yes the friend can get him to call you.