Ok what if you are having sex with a girl for the first time and you stop because it was hurting her?
and when you asked her to do it again, she said no
Then you called her two days later and she says that she doesnt want it to be just that.
does it mean that she wasnt impressed
2007-10-01 04:38:35 · 11 answers · asked by . 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think it means she thought it over and she isn't ready for sex and now she thinks that is all you want with her, and she doesn't want to put herself in that position with you again. I imagine she is also completely mortified. For most girls, intercourse is a very, very intimate thing....it can't help but be, if you think about the mechanics of sex. To know you saw her in this position is like saying you saw her naked in the hallway at school...it is devastating, at the very least. Now, the ball is in your court. If you like this girl for more than a practice dummy, then tell her that's okay, and you would like to see her again without doing all that stuff. If sex was your primary motivation, then leave her alone, but have the decency not to talk about her to your buddies. And, in case you are inclined to do so, remember...you don't have a lot to brag about.
Edit: BTW, I didn't tell you and I should have...Kudos to you for stopping when she asked you to.
2007-10-01 04:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else and say she wasn't ready. Also you can't just do it. You got to make sure she and you are both ready and foreplay and all that. Plus you got to do like a massage down there because that opens it up more and makes it less painful. Also the more you do it the less and less it hurts. No matter what though you need to basically massage down there for a little bit.
2007-10-01 04:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Boy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That means she wants you to see her much more of a complete human being that just a sex object!
Women are just as human as men are.
If she's in pain and your causing it, then you should stop!
To disregard her feelings and expect her to put aside her own feelings for you is selfish!
You're selfish to expect her to do it again after 2 days.
You didn't care about her pain, just your own ego!
Serves you right if she dumped you!
2007-10-01 04:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was her first time so how could she know if you sucked at it or not? I know my first time was somewhat painful and I made my boyfriend stop. After like a week I tried it again and it was less painful and more pleasureable.
2007-10-01 04:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the first answer...she got intimidated and isn't ready for that yet. Be patient and respectful...tell her that you will wait until she is ready and that you don't want her to be uncomfortable. Tell her that you will be with her without sex...if that is the truth. If you just want sex...find someone else.
2007-10-01 04:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
consistent with possibility its the perspective hes moving into. whilst he is going in have him purpose on your decrease back (if tht makes any experience) and notice if that helps. Plus in case you arent comfortable and comfortable, your vag isnt going to % anythng in it. loosen up and attempt distinctive angles. wish tht helps!
2016-10-20 11:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wasnt impressed ?!
if it hurts maybe she wasn't ready OR you have it a lil' too big o_0
2007-10-01 04:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she wasn't ready.
2007-10-01 04:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Megegie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding? Do you need an essay?
2007-10-01 04:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that she wasn't really ready, you should respect that and wait for her.
2007-10-01 04:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋