Ok guys, you have to help me make a BIG statement. I left high school 7 years ago and have found out today that there will be a reunion next month. I was bullied badly at school because I was 4 stones overweight and as a result - had very little friends. When I left high school, I kept in touch with no one and moved to Paris. I made it my life's mission to drop the weight and be successful in life. I have now shifted all the weight and am a lingerie model, doing my masters at uni. I feel like this was the day I was waiting for, to shut up all the bit-ches that made my life a living hell. I have no clue what to wear or say to them to make a statement but all I know is that I want to leave them speechless (which I already know they will be when they see me) but I want to work it to the fullest effect. Please help guys - any suggestions (sensible ones) will be greatly appreciated!xxx
2007-10-01 03:51:17 · 12 answers · asked by TROUBLE 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, first off....congratulations on turning your life around!
It would appear that this is your big moment.
You know, the point of reunions is to be competitive again with people you once knew. Now that you are an adult, you get to show how you've sized up with the rest of the world, not just your high school peers.
I assume that with losing that weight that you felt was bogging you down, starting your career, and going to a university gave you a significant self-esteem boost. Let that shine, girl! However....remember not to be cocky.
As far as what to say? As you said, they will all be gawking at you anyway...some may not recognize you. They of course, will want to know what you're doing with their life. There is no need to "seek revenge", because I'd be willing to bet your revenge will be the jealousy that they feel when they go home that night. Be proud of your accomplishments, but there is no need to wipe their faces with them.
As far as what to wear? I would say a flirty dress that is revealing, but not tooooooooo revealing! Wear something that reflects the person you are today and shows off those amazing curves you worked so hard for!
2007-10-01 03:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by keo31204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, Your ea fox, just thought i should let that be said first... Now, a leisure suit and leg warmers...that's just ridiculous. I understand the need to try to be funny, but if its not HIS reunion, then he needs to lay off that idea. Secondly, who the hell is he to make the demands. ****, flash me some leg and ill gladly go to your reunion. Get the point? In my own honest opinion, going back to the whole "you're a fox" thing...You're a fox. It doesn't matter if you go alone, because you have the foxiness oozing out of you and all the people you loath will be like" Damn, shes a fox." In my head, my thoughts are more concise and laid out a lot better, but i hope you at least picked up some of what i was putting down.
2016-04-06 22:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to my 20 year reunion a couple of years ago, and I was fat at school and bullied by 4 girls. I have a degree in engineering, I'm well travelled, I earn good money, I have a wonderful husband and I have a good life but more importantly I'm a UK size 8-10. I did not mention my career, travel, house etc I just went up to the girls and said ' hey you’re fat and I'm not'. I probably went down to their level, but revenge is actually very sweet!
Wear something elegant that you feel fantastic in and you know you look good in. Get your hair and nails done that day and enjoy. Remember these people are beneath you now.
2007-10-01 04:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went to my ten year reunion last month, it was great, And i was a totla loser in high school, Played no sports, low gpa, limited amount of friends.
However, ARE YOU TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT THIS???
If you are serious i would just come dressed like somwhat average, I f has happaend as you say many will probably nopt recognize you, But i would not go for revenge.
Just be like, Hi my name is sara, remember me, I remember you, what have you been up to, or wait for them to say something to you.
Don't be afraid though, Everybody was cool that i talked to.
2007-10-01 07:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you may 'look better' the biggest impression you can make will be by BEING REALLY FRIENDLY AND NICE to all of those who used to bully you. Be of sweet nature and ask them about their lives and what they are doing now, and the 'impression' you will leave will be one where they will have to 'question' their attitudes toward you (and others) when they were in high school. And by having that 'forgiving attitude' you will be not just 'impressive' but a 'template for sucess' they may actually want to follow for the rest of their lives.
2007-10-01 03:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to fashion... less is more..... just wear a beautiful sexy white dress.... or maybe gold color..... never wear busy prints...... get your self a nice stilletoes..... then get a gourgeous sexy curls.... make sure that your make-up will make your eyes stunning.... if your skin is fair better put some shiny skin bronzer.....and choose a brilliant stud earrings, a piece of bracelet or wrist watch.... and a purse that matches your footwear..... don't forget to spritz on sensual smelling perfume.... and have your teeth bleached if necessary....., then smile on the first person you will see and start introducing yourself...... remember that no one can ignore a great sincere smile......... and don't think that it's a night for a revenge for those who mistreat you on highschool days..... you'll end up getting conscious.... and it will show. never revenge just make them stunned by your presence.
2007-10-01 04:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on losing weight and feeling better about yourself. Thats fantastic!!
Ok, what you wear to make everyone drop their jaw? I don't think there is anything better then a beautiful lady in a black cocktail dress w/ black stockings and black heels.. Its very sexy and appropriate for this occasion. I think you will look fantastic.
best of luck!!!!
2007-10-01 05:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by jjobrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have had some very good advice here. Aviod barbed comments, remember some of them will have done at least as well as you,but others will be disappointd in their lives, don't rub it in
2007-10-01 04:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a nice classy dress, have your hair and makeup done, and make sure you wear your nametag proudly, hopefully it will have your old photo on it(for max effect).
That'll show those buttheads.
2007-10-01 03:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
youre doing so great I can barely have any advice for ya!
bring pics I guess.. speak French...work that accent to the hilt!
dress nice/classy
yep yep have fun!!!! I bet theyre all fat now haha...be nice anyway : )
2007-10-01 04:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋