i was in a discution with a group and then one of them tells that Egyptain girls are close-mided and dont think of loove except after maridge the are only concered with the idea of marridge and then think about love afterwards
i diagreed with them at all what do u think?
2007-10-01 03:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by Adham 1910 4 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
yes many of Egyptian girls are closed minded in this issue but as a result of the family raising up to girls, there is a kind of parents that raise their daughter on some principles that are completely wrong for example, don't talk with a boy, its forbidden, don't....don't....etc and its not the right way coz they make the girl fear the other sex, accordingly some girls are closed minded about love and so on.
but many any girls are open-minded in this
btw...am so open-minded in this
2007-10-01 04:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
most girls think of marriage, since they are little kids, a girl would want to marry her father, it's who they are and their constitution, i am sure they think about love, religion and traditions beymalo 3aleihom their actions, no one refuses love, but islam and traditions do not permit for girls (or boys by the way) to have relationships without marriage
2007-10-01 14:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sahar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Adhoma ...
I understand why your friends said so ..
actually, I myself have witnessed some girls,whether my friends or relatives, that were only concerned about getting married... no matter whether they love the man or not .. all what was important for them is to get married to a man who can afford marriage ...
Honestly,I disagreed with them totally ...
and now,some of them... live a veryyyy COLD life ... no emotions at all :(
According to my point of view.. a girl shouldn't get married to a man, just to gain the title Mrs. instead of Miss [as for me ... that's nonsense]..
no matter how old she is ... she has to love the person she'll spend the rest of her life with..... or better though ... doesn't marry
I believe that if a girl get married to a rich man whom she doesn't love ... there will come a day when she will hate herself and her life with him ....
coz after all "Love" is the essence of life
If a girl get married to the man she loves .. [and of course ... his loving her is out of question] ... she can face life hardships,ups&downs ... but she can't face it with a man she doesn't love.
so to answer your question:
NO .. it's not right to say "Egyptian girls" ...
it actually depends on the "girl" herself ....
whether "Egyptian" or not ....
some girls have NO emotions AT ALL :(
2007-10-01 11:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
No it is not true. Egyptian girls are very open-minded. Most of them know what love is and are very romantic. Marriage is a beautiful thing only when there is love
2007-10-01 14:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
it's not a matter of closed minded rather than the girls are illiterate about such issue .
i've myself witnessed some cases like this, and sadly, i can tell you that those girls don't know about the "sexual" relationship !!.........she thinks that they get married and that's it !!
and still, on the contrary, many boys are also illiterate in this issue.......... although they know about the "relationship", yet they are somehow like beasts, and don't know how to contain their wife is she's afraid of this new world she stepped in !!
all such things, and much more, are in our religion..........but who is there to read and who is there to explain to the youth who is in his way to love and get married !!
parents are afraid to educate their children on this issues, and many people leave their children, especially daughters till the day of marriage, and just on that day, the mother informs her daughter about this "relation"..................and of course the girl faints and is shocked !!!!
2007-10-01 13:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by . 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girls religion and the way she brought up,and her level of education.
and by the way same for boys.
as love is not just aword it's awhole agreement and hard contract between both of them.
2007-10-01 11:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by basma 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think he is generally right..women look at marriage as a goal in itself, most are bred and educated and prepared to fulfill this sole goal and nothing else matters..when they get married they discover that life is just getting harder..
2007-10-02 03:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you know i maryy to marry the one who i love and not just want marry
2007-10-01 12:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really Love someone before marriage, youre doing something wrong....true LOVE comes with committment, time, etc....to really love someone it requires alot....do u really want to marry some girl who was "in love' however many times? and for some reason she couldnt marry him, so she marries u, loves u, but of course if she really loved him then she cant just erase him from her mind or heart....or she forget him so easy which means she didnt really love him...sooooo which is it? Love is for after marriage...this is what Islam says, that Allah(swt) will put the love in your hearts.....assuming u do your part, by finding someone for their religion, who is compatible etc, but not to be alllll in love with....
2007-10-01 15:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Adam 6 · 4⤊ 7⤋
I think if you can't spell marriage you shouldn't consider proposing it to anyone, Egyptian or otherwise.
2007-10-01 10:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 8⤋