I drove 4 hours to visit my best friend for the weekend. During my stay i hurt her feelings with my actions.. She got into a big fight with her roommates to the point where she wants to move out of her apartment.. She had to go to class for about 5 hours and so i was left alone in her room.. Her room mates get home and i decide to go hang out with them.. My friend got furious saying how i took our friendship for granted by hanging out with them when they had just gotten into a really bad fight. she says that i was supposed to be on her side and have no excuse to hang out with them, specially when i dont even know them. i have realized i have made a mistake so i have send her 3 dozen roses. she will be receiving them tomorrow.. but i dont know if thats enough. i was thinking of driving 4 hours again and show up at her aparment with a single rose and give it to her right after she receives the 3 dozen roses and drive right back home...i want her forgiveness, shes my best friend.
2007-10-01 02:53:56 · 2 answers · asked by dienamicz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just because your friend had an argument with roommates, doesn't mean you have to be awful to the roommates... it was YOUR FRIEND'S argument, NOT yours.. you had nothing to do with it, and you should never take sides...
Your friend is immature and foolish.
2007-10-01 03:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry and even if it means a 4 hour drive, tell her you really want to see her. At this point, tell her again you're sorry and you had no right to do what you did and ask for her forgiveness.Tell her it hurts you to know she's upset and its because of you and you don't know how to fix it. If she's not willing to say okay, she's holding a grudge,and that's not right. If you two really are best friends, best friends don't do that to eachother
2007-10-01 10:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋