There are guys like that, but most guys will be up front with you. The ones who lie, have only one thought in mind, and Im sure you know what that is.
2007-10-01 02:42:06
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answered by jms043 7
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1. He had to be a sincere Christian, first and foremost. That would take care of alot of other qualities that I wanted. He had to be someone with strong character, and someone who was kind to others. That's just a few things but they were on the top of the list. 2. No, I didn't know, but I hoped. After a while I was sure it would last. 3. Yes, a good affect in our case. It made us both grow up more and it kept us from always focusing on ourselves. The stress and difficulty - and lately, the heartbreak (we had a stillbirth) - have drawn us closer as a couple, and the kids have brought so much joy into our home. They've also given us a bigger purpose in life than just our hobbies. 4. Sex and companionship. I'm sure you can guess why. : ) 5. Not ours, that's for sure. 6. People take marriage less seriously. People are more likely to back out when things get hard. 7. The willingness to put the other person first, to compromise, to sacrifice. If your focus is on yourself first and then your spouse your marriage won't do well. 8. Not divorced. The one thing that I think could lead to our downfall would be if we stop working on our relationship - stop spending time talking, stop saying sorry when we fight, basically if we just neglected one another. 9. See #3 above. They strengthen it because they're awesome and also because it's tough and it forces us to rely on each other for encouragement when things are rough. They don't necessarily weaken it - that only happens if people take out their stress and frustration on each other, or if they start playing the blame game. 10. Whenever the couple is ready. That said, it's a good idea not to put it off indefinitely because there is no guarantee that you'll be able to have kids if you wait too long. Female fertility peaks in our 20s and it's all downhill from there. Pair that with years and years of hormonal birth control use and you are potentially setting yourself up for IVF and fertility drugs. 11. We talk about it. Sometimes we fight a bit but we always apologize and make it right. 12. My biggest fear was that something would happen to him and I'd be alone. That's still one of my biggest fears; now I'm also afraid of something happening to one of my kids. Losing a full term baby has been awful; I bet losing one of our other children would be even worse because we know them and they've been part of our family for years instead of months. The hole would be even bigger and the loss that much deeper. The thought makes me tremble, to be honest. I'm a woman, and I've been married for 5 1/2 years. I got married at 19.
2016-04-06 22:23:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I would say it's closer to 5 % of what men tell women upon dating.
2007-10-01 02:42:21
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answered by Hot Head 6
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No way! Only believe about 5 percent. The other the you have 60% exagerrated truth and 35% complete lies.
2007-10-01 02:40:56
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answered by ~*LilDebbie=BigDeborah*~ 6
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Beleive about 5%. just kidding. Every persone is different. You just have to get to know then and a first date is hard to get to know someone, you need more time, if they seem worth it from the first date.
2007-10-01 02:40:32
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answered by Hot Betty J 4
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Depends on the guy. But probably he will try to impress you - stretch the truth a little - it's instinctive.. But I wouldn't put a percentage on it. We all do it - just to give that first good impression.
2007-10-01 06:09:16
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answered by Scarlet 4
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Some men are like that But not all of us hopefully you will find one that is not
2007-10-01 02:54:35
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answered by Anonymous
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thats not true , its more like 12% or 13%
2007-10-01 02:41:33
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answered by never_rested 5
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That 10% seems a little bit high, don't you think?
2007-10-01 02:41:36
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answered by ? 6
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I guess thats true if the experts are saying that
2007-10-01 02:40:49
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answered by Anonymous
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