The other day i had sex for the first time. At first he didn't use a condom. But he only stuck it in for like 5 or 6 times then i made him put on a condom. Then half way threw i wasn't feeling comfortable with it so i said please stop. But he was just like please let me finish so i did. After he was finished he took it out and he stopped. But now I'm afraid that since we didn't use a condom for like a little bit that I am pregnant. I asked him if he came inside me, he said no. But I"m still scared.This is like a week and a half before my period. I'm suppose to get it on October 6th. Do you think I'm pregnant?
2007-10-01 02:14:17 · 19 answers · asked by crazychick34 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You are probably not pregnant. Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable though.
2007-10-01 02:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by brwnidjkmo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Like it has been suggested:
1. you might be PG if the guy did not use the condom 5 or 6 times.
2. Go to Planned Parenthood and get condoms and advise
3. Get on the pill, even if you do not plan on sex again until you are 45.
4. Get checked for STD. This is the most important thing to do. If he has to wait to finish before he stops, then he is an SOB who only cares about him. A true male lover want to satisfy her, that will make it better for him and you. Once all the tests are done, dump him. You have plenty of time in your young life to have sex, don't waste it on someone who does not care about you.
2007-10-01 09:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this occurred within the last 2-3 days then probably no. We as women have a 48 (sperm lives aprox. 72 hrs) hour period of time each month during which we can conceive. When this time is depends upon your body. Some women ovulate early, some late. The average by medical standards is 14 days after you begin to menstrate you ovulate. There's a very good book called " Taking charge of your fertility" which has a system based on several physiological factors that is very good for not only conception but also as a contraceptive. I have a few friends that use this system for figuring their monthly ovulation dates so that they can avoid these days a few days surrounding them in reference to sex. As you can see from my response thus far I'm trying to give definitive information to you without moral input. So when I say that you need to realize that when you have sex (protected or not) your basically saying that your ready to be a parent and that this is the person whom you want to have a child with. So all I'm saying is make sure your prepared to handle what comes from having sex (abortions aren't as ez as they make them out to be emotionally) and that the person with whom you are having sex is someone who would know and do what is right in life. Good luck and take care of yourself.
2007-10-01 09:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex again until you are ready
If the guy really loved you, he would never done what he did
You should be okay, but there always a chance
You could get pregnant with him just going in once or even close you your v*******. It only take one sperm to get but and swim in and get your pregnant.
I would suggest you see a doctor. You need birth control and be tested for STD's
Welcome to the world of unprotected sex
If you do not want to get pregnant, you need to do all three every time you have sex
1. Go to a doctor, and get birth control. There are several types of birth control, the doctor will help you decided the best for you
2. NEVER have sex with out a condom
3. ALWAYS use a spermicide
If you do all three every time you have sex, you should not get pregnant
Try not to stress, stress can make your period late
2007-10-01 09:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy is a possibility even with no penetration at all. The sexual fluids that "leak" out of an erect organ have sperm in them the same as the fluids associated with climax. Start preparing for the possibility that you are pregnant, thinking over what your choices and options will be in that case. If your period comes (I hope so!) then you can just be wiser and more assertive in the future. If it's more than 5 days late, please get tested. If you're opting for motherhood, then you need to start pre-natal care. If you're opting for termination, then you need to do it quickly.
You can get information about condoms, pregnancy, and how to talk to your partner about such things, as well as counseling on prenatal care or termination at www.plannedparenthood.org
2007-10-01 09:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i seriously doubt that you are pregnant, and he is telling you the truth because if he had of compleated his "business" inside you then he would have stoped right away because the penis goes soft after that, BUT as soon as the penis is hard there is pre-*** so it is possible that no he didn't *** in you but there was pre ***...but i do believe that you wouldn't be pregnant because its rare that a girl would fall pregnant on the first time they have sex next its rare that pre *** gets a girl pregnant and also you are most fertile 12-16 days after your period. but don't have sex with out a condom because you will end up getting pregnant.
p.s the first few times hurt...after that it WILL get better
2007-10-01 09:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't use protection u always run the risk of getting pregnant or an std. So if your going to have sex use condoms to protect against std's but get on the pill as well for extra protection from getting pregnant you can go to your local planned parent hood to get BCP and they will give you free condoms and everything is confidential. good luck 2u
2007-10-01 09:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is always a small chance when no condom is used even for a moment...but there is no way of telling this soon, if u mis ur period then you have something to worry about. there is something called pre-***. which is ejaculate that comes out when the male doesnt even feel it, before he finishes. so if you miss your period, go take a test.
2007-10-01 09:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you are pregnant. My husband and I used the pull out method for 7 months and I never got pregnant. When we finally started trying, I did get pregnant. I would be more concerned about STD's in this situation than pregnancy!! Lastly, this guy needs to understand what rape is and isn't. If you say no, it means no!! Although in this situation you allowed him to go forward so "he could please himself", next time someone else may say no and mean it and he may think he needs to keep going. Girl, I'm sorry you lost your virginity this way..but don't stress..it'll only make things worse!!!
2007-10-01 09:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have little to worry about. It was very risky not using one, but you shouldn't stress over it, especially since he put one on before too long.
Also, if you're uncomfortable with it, then - in my opinion - you shouldn't be doing it. If he keeps pushing it, then he probably doesn't care about you as much as he says he does; he's just more interested in sex. If he cares about you enough he can wait until you are 100% okay/comfortable with it.
2007-10-01 09:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its unlikely but possible pre *** comes out of a males penis while your having sex which has more sperm than regular ***. have u had any signs. im still waiting to find out if i am and my date to test is october 6th too but if it will help you ease your mind wait until 5 days before your period and get a 5 days sooner hpt test
2007-10-01 11:23:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋