My College friends and mates secretly laughs me behind my back, saying that I'm weird,complicated type of woman...Only my one true close gal pal and my sis only told me that you are intelligent,kind woman that everyone admires ...What's wrong with these???Who's telling the truth and not???Am I suppose to listen to what I hear negatively or act like I don't care at all (which pinches my heart so much everyday)...I almost gone insane of these......waaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh........i'M NOW A 2ND YEAR cOLLEGE ....I'm always feel mad at insecure about my mates and friends even though I tried really best to open up and nice to them(they doesn't accept me at all))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))......
2007-09-30 19:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by foreigner_lady 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
Listen to your heart. Your gut feel will tell you who to believe. And then do not mind what your detractors are saying.
So you can so on and enjoy life.
2007-10-04 18:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way--'weird', 'complicated' type of people are actually artistic, creative and special! Hey--people called me the same way during my High School and College years simply because they didn't know me at all. All they do is judge around, acting as if they're perfect, popular and all. But usually, people name names to others because they're insecure themselves!
Just live the way you want it to be-- don't try to please others by being like somebody else. As the saying goes, "be yourself"-- act the way you really should be. Do what you think interests you. So what if they don't like it? This is what you want anyway. Also, be confident about yourself. At least you know who you are than being a trying-hard-2nd rate copycat.
2007-10-01 03:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by jennylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friend as they are the envious type of people. They laughed behind your back to hide their insecurities towards you. Believe me, these people cannot be trusted and if you continue being with them, one day you will find yourself in a really embarassing situation caused by them. Be as you are, weird or complicated it doesn't matter. Someday you will find yourself a better person because of your uniqueness...
2007-10-01 04:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Roszi Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe its a time for some reflection, there might be a reason why they're saying those things. btw, are you 100% sure they're talking about you?
if they are, just ignore them. don't get too affected. find a new set of friends. you're only a sophie, you have a long way to go in your college life. its hard going thru it w/out good company : )
2007-10-01 19:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are weird and you don't know bout it. Your sister is not telling the truth. Your friends are not telling the truth. Listen to people who talk behind your back. They are the real deal about you.
People who lies about how you dress, how you look are like your family and friends. They'll make you feel good. Making you feel good doesn't do you justice. Without you knowing why you are weird would let you have the chance to change.
Are you really weird? You must not be weird. You must be super duper ultra cool kid. Being werid in Amerika is cool especially in Hollywood. Being weird in Amerika is geeky meaning your are a natural scientist.
I am weird. I like being weird. People talk behind my back i'm weird. I spike up and dye my hair. I wear extra low denims. I show off my navel. I have hoop earings. But, dude, they don't want to sit with me in class because i'll never make them copy my answers.
SO BE WEIRD. LET THEM CALL YOU WEIRD. TO HELL WITH ACCEPTANCE. I LIKE WEIRD PEOPLE. UNWEIRD PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GO WTH THE FLOW. THEY'RE THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T THINK INDEPENDENTLY!!!!
WEIRD PEOPLE ARE COOL!!!!!! RAISE YOUR HANDS IN THE AIR AND SCREAM "WEIRD PEOPLE ARE COOL"
2007-10-04 21:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by mrmpcebu59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice for you is ignore this people... and fine a friend or new companion that appreciate who you are... why bother all this nonsense people that like to laughs behind your back.. is doesn't make sense if you continue to be near this kind of people.. oh my gosh my "girl" you deserve a good a friends and people who love the way you are... keep it up... be who you are...continue your "goal" in life..ok.you take care and start loving yourself...
lady with a big heart
2007-10-01 03:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by lady with a big heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
You have to love yourself of who you are.
I feel that way sometimes and im male 32 yrs old , with a partner
with 2 kids .
I m assuming that youre just occupied with your work or asessments , theyre just jealous .
Head up and dont think about them or youll go insane ,
its their lost and you can meet new people.
2007-10-03 21:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple logic. Find another group of friends.
2007-10-01 08:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Johny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-before i answer your question i just want to comfort you first...i think your friends that telling you negative things is not your true friends bec. friends should not judge their friends like that or if their are things that they don't like to you i think they must keep it i mean they must not express that by teasing you are acting it to you obviously...and for your friend that tells you positive we can say that she is a true friend bec. she/he don't want to hurt your feelings but in other case what if he/she is just telling it to you not heartedly i mean just not to hurt your feelings but in that case its not bad he/she just only don't want to hurt your feelings... don't be insecure to your mates and friends bec. their are not perfect person everyone of us have mistakes in our life... i wish you can have a true friend...
2007-10-01 05:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by mau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, i just think you should find better friends who don't talk crap behind your back. they're not even worth it. you should trust your loved ones more.
2007-10-01 03:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by crazyhollisterjunkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋