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okay so i have this guy friend, i think i am annoying him with hugs (i give him a least 3 hugs a day)and then like after a day without talking to him, he changes and is a lot happier, like i have P.E with him and well.. we have fun! he teases me and i teased him, he made me laugh, u know, what do u think made him change?
p.s he is always like this, he changes every single ****** day! think that he was thinking that i hated him the whole day because i wouldn't talk to him and try to dodge him

2007-09-30 15:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Fashion & Accessories

i putted it here on purpose

2007-09-30 15:57:32 · update #1

7 answers

Maybe he gets embarrassed with the hugging and the touchy-feely going on of the whole situation. I think you should still try talking to each other, just cut on the hugging maybe. See what works and see what doesn't and from there work into getting along with his good side. If he gets too complicated for you, then maybe he isn't really your friend.

2007-09-30 16:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 6 · 3 0

Talk to him. Ask:
1] do you like me hugging you?
2] does it embarass you?
3] he IS just a friend, right? not just a horndog?
4] tell him four hugs a day is minimum for emotional health - my husband told me this the day I met him [ he was a little bit of a horndog! ], and it's true! Our kids [ boys, ages 18 and 23 ] are great huggers, and now the rest of my family is too.
Hope you are sharing hugs with family members and other friends.
PS: hugging friends never cramped my son dating other girls - they seemed to think it was great! The girls parents did too!

2007-09-30 23:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0 0

Sounds like he likes you in that way but thinks you are being a "tease", smothering him with attention, but not letting him get anywhere else. This could make him feel frustrated or slightly depressed, which is why he tones it down sometimes and isnt as playful. Other times, he remembers why he likes you so much to begin with, and he flirts.

2007-09-30 23:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by boots6 7 · 0 0

Lessen the hugs to about 1 or 2 a day.
Talk to him, but don't stalk him.
This way, if he doesn't maintain a predictable and normal attitude, you'll know it's NOT YOU.
It's obviosly something else.

2007-09-30 23:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by NICHOLE JONAS. jb4l♥ [☺] 2 · 1 0

Maybe ease up on the hugs, and don't talk to him all the time. And when you do talk to him, try to keep it shortish. I'm not sure if it's you or not, because that sounds sort of weird on his part but w/e...

2007-09-30 23:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ah, to be young. Maybe stop giving him so many hugs? Who knows. Maybe he's just trying to be "cool" in front of you! Why don't you just ask him?

2007-09-30 23:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren P 4 · 0 0

putted isnt a word.

2007-09-30 23:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 3 · 1 1

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