2007-09-30 15:43:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes
im 32 weeks pregnant now.
I think that is best thing you could do for someone...id maybe do it once, thats it...cuz it puts alot of strain on the body.
2007-09-30 15:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by LiLmamma 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO, 1st of all, I haven't had my own kids yet, I've been ttc for 5 years but I would not ask to have a surrogate mother either. There are soo many children that are up for adoption and need parents, why make new ones with a surrogate mother? There are children that are already here in need of loving parents. So my answer is NO.
2007-10-01 00:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Optimistic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately no if it was my own egg being used. I'm not sure though if it were a donor egg (or the egg of a woman who couldn't carry a pregnancy). I like the idea of being that selfless, but I'm not sure I could really do it. I'm afraid I would get too attatched to the baby. Plus I have 5 children who would want to know why we weren't keeping this baby. Not to mention that despite having no compilcations, I hate being pg. Oh and the tummy tuck I had after I knew I wasn't planning to have any more children (another pregnancy would stretch that back out). So I guess my answer is no.
2007-09-30 23:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by redessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do anything to be a surrogate. I couldn't be because I had preeclampsia with my baby and I am overwieght. I can't explain how much I would love to carry a baby for someone who isn't able to do it themselves. I loved being pregnant, I was so happy and felt so good, I loved it more than anything I have ever done in my life, the miraculous feeling of creating a human being right inside of you, my body made fingernails and eyelashes, my body made a tiny heart, a tiny gall bladder, you get my point...pregnancy is amazing and I would love to do it for someone.
2007-09-30 22:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by adriyensmom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I would, especially if it was someone close to me. If I already had all the children I wished to have, I would want to help give that to someone else. And it would be my all time most self less act. It would be hard to carry a baby for 9mo to give it up, but maybe someday if the opportunity comes...the thought will be in my mind that it would be my best gift ever given, so its possible I would yeah (but not if it were my egg, only if it was the sperm and egg of another couple implanted into me)
2007-09-30 23:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not
i love the bonding however i go through post partum and i wouldnt want my kids to have to deal with that for a sib let alone a baby they cnat bond with beyond the belly.
On top of htat their starting to worry about my health more and more week by week so i wouldnt want to potentially have a huge health risk and not be there for my kids to have someone elses.
i do strongly back those who can. It is a very wonderful thing to do.
2007-09-30 22:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that I would if it was under the right circumstances. I mean if someone that I loved and cared for could not have children and wanted someone they know to carry it for them I probably would do it. I have two kids of my own and adore them. I would not want to take that joy away from someone, just cause I was being selfish.
2007-09-30 23:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be...the baby could not be from my egg though. I think it is the greatest blessing you could give to someone else. My best friend will never be able to have children and I have told her that I would carry her child when she finds her husband and is ready for a family.
2007-09-30 23:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by dsrrae03 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that i could be---I mean being pregnant right now and feeling the baby kick and all , I dont think i could give the child to other woman after delivery...that would be so hard. You have 9 months of bonding and then nothing to show for it.
2007-09-30 22:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2dw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, though I am trying to have my first right now. I would want to have 2 myself...because if the first one I had had to go to someone else it would tear me up inside.
I have given it a lot of thought though and may do it one day.
2007-09-30 22:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋