Why can't girls say no to sex? Many people said, it is a self-esteem issue.
What else could be variable to stop girls and women from say no to sex?
Thank you very much.
2007-09-30 13:38:45 · 24 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
they say no because of fear of rejection most times, they know that they could get dieses or get pregnant, but sometimes when women are maddly in love it is hard to say know because you love the person so much it is hard to say no to anything they say. but if you had to say no, then just say it, it will make you a better person if you are not married yet, or at least in or out of college. but the women just does not want to lose their sugnificant other. and ur welocome!
2007-09-30 13:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
saying no to sex is sometimes a good thing. There are so many diseases going around that I do not know how any girl or woman could say yes very easily. be careful. Life is too short and there are too many bad people out there that will take advantage of you.
There are some good people too that would make a beautiful, lasting relationship happen also but they are just hard to find sometimes.
I think it is good to not be in any hurry, that way you will be careful and happy. take care and pat yourself on the back for being careful.
2007-09-30 20:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's the X- factor of a girl feeling wanted. It's true: a lot of girls and women want to feel like they're needed and that someone cares for them enough to go that far. Also, a lot of people don't want to admit this, but it's the pressure and the assurance that "Oh, I'm not gonna go too far, I'll stop at second base; I promise." But the problem is, they don't know that they've already reached second base until they've hit home...
2007-09-30 20:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by SiSi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is for the most part that they feel pressured to please the guy becuase that is what a guy usually wants. A lot of women are unsure of them selfs and just go with the flow which can be bad. I know i am going to hear people nagging me on this but this just my opinion. And why you would ask this question is a mystery to me.
2007-09-30 20:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by ??? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not every girl says yes to sex. O_o
some want to have sex, some don't. for some it's about self-esteem and internal feelings, and for others they want to try new things and have fun.
others aren't interested or don't care to be violated yet, or don't find it that fun.
it's all about the person.
2007-09-30 20:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say no. I think it's an issue of feeling older and more mature, one step closer to adulthood. Self-esteem I would agree is definitely an issue.
2007-09-30 20:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that they enjoy sex might keep them from saying "no".
The fact that some of them think if it's okay for a guy, then they should be able to do it is another reason that spurs them on.
2007-09-30 20:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-09-30 20:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its peer pressure.
or the fact that they are scared to loose the guy.
in most situations if you say no to the guy they wont take it well and they well probably end the relationship.
also like the person bbelow me said afraid of being raped.
i would also think that the fact of being "humiliated" by the guy telling other people that your still a virgin; your scared; and ect.
hope it helped.
2007-09-30 20:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by amy. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a lot of it is the self-esteem.... some women equate sex with love or real affection.... could be they are lacking these things elsewhere in their lives & use sex as a substitute....
2007-09-30 20:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by from HJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋