I decided to come out to my friends that im Bi last week, They're all fine with it. I dont really care who knows and what they think or say about it/me. But one of my best friends says that she thinks it would be better for me not to tell who i want because they wont all react the same. Do you think i should have to hide it from everyone like my friend says, or do you think i should be able to tell who i want?
2007-09-30 13:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by Beaver 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hiding it is impossible. just be true to yourself. what other people think shouldnt matter.
2007-09-30 13:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by mrzwink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the decision is yours and yours only. I do not hide that I am lesbian from anyone. I find that I am much healthier living that way. I have a lot less stress. I know who my friends are. I know who my enemies are. Fortunately, I don't have to worry about losing my job or my family, etc. But, I suggest that you just analyze it from your own perspective and not listen to anyone else. Do what YOU feel is best for you. I wish you the very best.
2007-09-30 20:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should hide it or lie about it. but you shouldn't flaunt it in certain situations either. like at work. you'll never get ahead that way. but in your everyday life, i think you should tell who you want. it'll tell you who's who in this world.
2007-09-30 20:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by ajspringsteen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other people will always try to tell you not to do something because they would probably not be able to handle it... or do it themselves... it's your life... and this isn't a dress rehearsal... your happiness is dependent on you... and you should always do what makes you happy....
2007-09-30 20:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does that thing go
if you have it flaunt it
whatever
whatever you know
2007-10-01 01:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋