what do you think I should do in my last 6 mos? I am open to all comments, religious or not
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I thank you all for your answers. I have a disected carotid artery and my time is coming to an end. I am most concerned with those I am leaving behind. I am living right up to my final moment....but they must go on........its so Sad!....
2007-09-30 13:18:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
This is no joke. I was in a MVA and have a bizzare ,freak condition....I am not going to live like this much longer. I am saddened ,but not unconsolable
2007-09-30 13:24:14 · update #1
Make peace with God.
2007-09-30 13:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by cgi 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am the olnly survivor of my family of a father, mother, and two sisters; and was a widower, but am remarried.
I have 3 sons, a wife, and new daughter.
But I have always wanted to share a part of myself with them so that they know something about my life.
There is a place I just searched on google called familymemoriesvideo where I might try it. There are others out there like that so this is not the only one.
Perhaps this is something you may want to try yourself. I do admire people like you and good luck and God bless you.
2007-09-30 16:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle Remus 54 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience of losing people I love ,I agree it is sad .no disrespect but the dying have the easy part ,those of us you leave behind have to live the rest of our days without you.we go on living whether we want to or not.
I lost 2 friends and a family member to cancer this year.
If i had any advice at all for you it would be -Don't leave until you,ve made sure of 2 things. (1.) That you're right with God.(reread the gospel of John in the new testament, follow the instructions concerning Jesus)
(2. )That everyone you love Knows you love them.(say goodbye and tie up loose ends.)
I have you on my prayer list now .and you can e-mail me if you want.I'm here.
peace ><>
2007-09-30 13:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by matowakan58 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure your ready to meet the Lord and make everything as right with as you can with your family and friends so you can go be with your Lord in peace,I`ll pray for you,please keep email me and keep me informed on how your doing.I don`t mean to be rude or out of line in anyway,but my 31 year old daughter and my mother are there,maybe they will meet you and you can be in a joyous place together on the other hand miracles do take place sometimes,my doctor told me I had congestive heart failure,but when I went to have it checked in the hospital,it was just gone!Everything was OK.I will pray for you!
2007-09-30 15:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though I wish to, I 've no words to comfort you. Having lost three loved ones in three consecutive months I 've learned the only solice, for me, lies in the knowledge that one day will be my turn. Those who love me will grieve as I did over the loss of loved ones. Ask your loved ones to keep their connections to you open, that you will give them "signs", be specific. As a child, my son had an obsession with death and would ask me " What would happen to me if you died?" My answer was " You will live your life" Then, he asked " What will happen to me when I die?" My response was " I will be waiting for you, I'll meet you there"
So long as you harm none, do whatever you feel compelled to do. Ask those you love to honor your life, not your death and let them know you will be there for them.
All of our lives will end soon, my dear. You're not alone.
God bless you and yours.
Brigid
2007-09-30 16:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Brigid 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God I'm so sorry about it.
Well some guy said life doesn't matter how long you life, its what you do and who you affect positively.
Hang out with friends, volunteer to read to children at your local library. Apologize to everyone you fought with and make everyone your best friend. I hope you make the most of your time and have a great rest of your life.
2007-09-30 13:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Paul H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all,let me commend you on how brave you are being about your situation.
Besides spending as much time with your family as possible,I think it would be great to try something new.
Have you always wanted to learn how to knit,or bowl?
What about traveling?If you can afford it,that would be a great thing for you to do.
Stay strong!
2007-09-30 14:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time with the ones you love, preferably somewhere you love. I know this probably isn't an earth shattering answering but it certainly made me think about life. sorry to hear of your situation. best wishes.
2007-09-30 15:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by emkay4597 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i could first % to appreciate that i in simple terms had each and every week to stay, if i did i could do each and every thing i wished to do and say each and every thing i could been preserving back. i could pass sky diving, bungee leaping, scuba diving, something and each thing i ought to think of of. If i in simple terms had each and every week left i would not % to spend it in mattress or in a wellbeing midsection.
2016-10-20 10:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by llanos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is that one thing you've wanted to do, ever since you could remember?
2007-09-30 13:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by SHARON 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋