Well i had an abortion exactly a week and a day ago, and the day after my mom put me on birth control pills. I took the 1st 7 pills in the 28 day cycle, but now i want to stop. I dont really like taking them , i always forget about them. Will this mess up my usual 21 day cycle, will i be bleeding for a long period of time.
2007-09-30 11:14:12 · 23 answers · asked by He's the King to my Queen 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
to everyone judging me. I didnt want to have an abortion, your critisism only makes my depression worse, before you judge someone, think before you respond, because you dont kno wat that person is going through. I AM COMPLETLY AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN AGAINST ABORTIONS, WHEN YOUR FORCED TO DO SOMETHING U HAVE NO CHOICE
2007-09-30 11:22:42 · update #1
Don't listen to the people who are judging you. Just hope they never have to experience what you did, they have no idea how hard that choice actually is. I loved the pill when I was on it. I knew exactly when my period was going to be - everything is so exact, my periods became shorter too. I would say give it more time before you get off it, give it some time - I think you'll like it.
2007-09-30 11:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I dont feel that a lecture will work or help out any judging by the way all these people just tore into you. the period should be the least of your worries, but to let you know that the pill is givento you in a apprpriate time according to your menstral cycle, so they will be ok to take and with any birth control it will make you bleed or spot. and think about it this way if you are bleeding you did just have an abortion, so you body is overcomming a major trama and has to adjust, since you were pregnant your period is off trac anyways and will take a while to get back on track anyways. try the depo it is a shot 1x every 3 months and is easy to rember,
2007-09-30 18:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by alexia's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this will screw up your cycle to stop taking a package of birth control pills without finishing it. More importantly, you run the risk of getting pregnant again!
You need to let your mom know that birth control pills might not be the best option for you. You can get a Depo shot that you only need every 3 months. If you can't get your mom to take you go to your local Planned Parenthood office and they will help you.
Please get on something. You are not ready for a baby yet and there are serious risks involved in having abortions. And I'm sure you know the risks of sexually transmitted disease. Nothing but abstainance will prevent that 100% but condoms are much safer for that.
Good luck and think about your future.
2007-09-30 18:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by anniecl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out some way to remember to take them. Can your mom help you to remember? Set an easy time...when you get up or when you go to bed. You say that you don't like taking them....did you like having an abortion? I'm pro choice, but abortion is not birth control!!! Would you rather take a pill each day or have abortion after abortion? It's about responsibility. If you want to have sex, then you're old enough to be responsbile about it. Take the pills or stop having sex.
2007-09-30 18:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More importantly than messing up your cycle, if you continue to get pregnant and have abortions as a remedy, your life will be messed up. We don't always like taking them, however, sometimes you have to take the "I" and the "me" out of the equations and use common sense and think about the life's you abort every time you get pregnant. Take the 90 day pill or just abstain. You are not alone in this, you never were you never will be and how will you answer for your choices when it counts?
2007-09-30 18:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by eek! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh god if you don't wanna take the pills tell your mother to get you the birth control needle and young lady stop having sex, and just so you know abortions are not an effective method of birth control.
i read your other questions and i don't care if your mother "made" you do it, you still had a choice to leave, you could have gone to a shelter or a home for unwed mothers, there is always an answer stop feeling sorry for yourself.
2007-09-30 18:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Wishmaster 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To help you remember to take them, just stick to a schedule. Take them at the same time ever day. For example, put them next to your toothbrush so you know to take the pill first thing every morning...or put them on your nightstand so you'll remember to take them every night.
Or you could just see about getting the patch, and IUD or the birth control shot.
2007-09-30 18:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Bella*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm you should really speak with a doctor about this. I don't know much about birth control since I have yet to start taking it. But have you though about the shot instead of the pills?
2007-09-30 18:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Shon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may experience some spotting, but by next month your cycle should be the same as before you were on the pill.
2007-09-30 18:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by jelly tots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can. if you are going to remain sexually active I suggest you stay on the pill. being on the pill and taking them at the same time every single day eliminate the need for an abortion.
2007-09-30 18:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋