Or did you sometimes feel 2nd or 3rd place? How does that affect you today?
2007-09-30 08:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by Red Phantom 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
she did not help with my sexaul abuse issue but yes
2007-10-01 05:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mom is there for me no matter what. She makes me feel wanted... even though im not. im just a waste of matter. But she loves me and gives me all the attention she can. i gave her the best bday present ever--- I woke her up @ 6 am and played the B day song on the accordion. YEs i play the accordion... its fun! :D
edit- whenever i remind her, she gets a smile on her face no matter how sad she is and says, "i love you".
she was there for me when i had a panic attack because my family discovered that my dad cheated... I was affected the most. Even though she was suffering more, she did her best to calm me down and go on with life. I do the same with her when she has a nervous breakdown.
2007-09-30 15:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Because I wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really my biological mother gave me up at birth and my mother, well she was the best mother she could be given the circumstances. I had a decent childhood and the only thing it does for me today is reinforce the determination I have to be a great and loving parent.
2007-09-30 16:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely
2007-09-30 16:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wanted to but booze got in the way. Even after she got sober it still ruled her life in that she became "meeting obsessed" and then after counselling just self absorbed. She witheld affection when we disappointed her and it still will give me pause when I know I have to tell her something she won't like.
But it has made me a better parent in that I make doubly sure my kids know I love them even when I am angry.
2007-09-30 16:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother loved me,she was always there for me,but in reality she loved the baby in the family more than me or my older brother.It had no affect on either of us because we loved him very much too.
2007-09-30 22:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by § dreamer § 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she had a lot of problems & distractions but I know she cared about me (she's now deceased 14 years); she told me she loved me everyday.
2007-09-30 15:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by BklynNative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she preferred my older siblings because they were the achievers. I am AOK with it, because I turned out all right, just not as accomplished.
2007-09-30 16:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom never made any of us feel like we were less than each other. she was raised in a family like that and treated us like individuals. she still loves me like i am me and God knows i love her for it.
2007-09-30 16:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Chicken Nugget 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋