Okay, im Loopy Clarke and im 15 years old today. :) I had a huge birthday party a week ago to celebrate my upcoming 15th birthday and it was great but there was a bit of vodka, beer ect... and i drunk quite a bit =[ but soo i did and i ended up having sex wiv this guy... i then realised the next day what i had done as i sort of remember as i wasnt too drunk, but i no i am underaged and it was safe but is this really bad tht i had sex at the age of 14?
2007-09-30 08:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by Loopy:) 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you're asking this question, you already know the answer in your heart.
Sex isn't just physical. It is emotional, mental, social.... And how do you KNOW it was safe? A condom (under the BEST of circumstances is only 85% effecitve in preventing pregnancy and is NOT 100% for STD protection!!). Have you seen the movie "Knocked Up" yet? That is a classic example of what happens when you drink & screw.
Please....for your health, your body's well being, your mind, your social standing, and your future, do NOT have sex again until you're an adult...and even then don't have sex if you've been drinking!
2007-09-30 08:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the guy you had sex with was also under 18 years old and you both consented to have sex, then there was nothing illegal about it.
The fact that you are trying to use being drunk as an excuse and not being responsible for your actions does make it seem that you are too young and not mature enough to be having sex. Sex between two people can be a wonderful thing. However, if they are irresponsible, then there is the risk of being labelled a $lut, loss of self esteem, poor self image, disease, pregnancy, and leading to more dangerous activities.
It is your body and I encourage you to have sex if you are interested. But to truly enjoy sex, it involves maturity, responsibility, and honesty with yourself and your partner.
2007-10-02 05:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Susan W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, concerning in health, no you're not exactly too young.
But morally, heck yeah. In society today, it is wrong for that sort of thing. You're under age.
If you keep having sex like this, yeah, you're gonna end up with the illness no body wants. I'm sure you don't want this.
So, here's something to do--talk to someone about this. *Don't* go online like this again. There are creeps just waiting to make you do it again with them. Talk to someone you know. Someone you know has awesome character. That person will tell you what to do in the best way, because he/she knows you. I don't.
So, yeah, you're too young right now. And you *can* get sick.
2007-09-30 08:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being the parent of a 14, 12 and 9 year old girls, all I can say is yes, it was wrong. Talking from another point of view, I think the fact that you are asking in the first place tells me that you are thinking the same way
2007-09-30 08:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 01:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the world of regret! We all say if only I could only go back and redo this and redo that! But the fact is we can't! so the answer to your question if I have to ask then I was not ready!
Do not look back just go forward and do not do it again until you feel emotionally and physically ready. I would also get some education on drinking and what it can and will do to you!
Also remember it only takes 1 mistake to get HIV for life.
Good Luck!
2007-09-30 08:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you figure I'm old enough to have my period so the next step is to jump into bed with some guy? So the answer yes. You could be pregnant especially if the condom (he was wearing one right?) broke. Have fun. Toodles.
2007-09-30 09:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by lifetimeknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kind of like asking is it alright to get pregnant at 14 - you know the answer, yeah if you have sex below 18 than it really is too young...
2007-09-30 18:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that starts a question with "am i too young" you already know the answer...yes. If you were 25 you wouldn't be asking that because you would actually be mature enough to know the answer.
2007-09-30 08:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Corona 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are. Asking this question twice trying to get someone to say oh no it's perfectly alright shows you're too young.
2007-09-30 08:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Michael S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋