If somebody steals or attempts to steal your spouse or close one away from you, what should you do if this spouse or gf will not listen to you after fighting for her, and goes with the other person who is trying to steal her away from you? Should you seek revenge, or just let go and let karma do it's job?
2007-09-30 08:06:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your significant other was stolen away from you, then they were never yours to begin with. (Think about that) I would chaulk it up to a learning experience and move on from the revenge issue. The revenge will come in time when the other realizes what a mistake was made and tries to return to you. At this point, I would not risk the same event happening again. I would probably be thinking how sweet revenge is while I was closing the door in they're face.
2007-09-30 08:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, they cannot steal someone from you; that person must wish to go with them also. Do not seek revenge; you will only hurt yourself if you do so. The best revenge is to let them have each other; they deserve each other, go on with your life and as the old saying goes 'good riddance to bad rubbish' - you are now free to enjoy your life without having to deal with all the drama. You can do whatever you wish to do now; enjoy your own passions - look forward, not back.
2007-09-30 15:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think revenge is ever the answer. If I were you, I would just tell that person that if they go to someone else, they won't be able to come back. The best thing that could happen would be for that person to try to come back to you, just so that you will be able to reject them. I say let karma take care of it. Revenge is for the immature. You will be ok eventually...
2007-09-30 15:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by prestigieuxlavie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can be "stolen" from anotherr person....a person chooses to be "stolen".....and if my spouse were to choose another person over me...then let her have him...because i don't want a lying cheating husband....would I seek revenge? No reason to...... I believe in Karma...and karma will come back around and get him in the end.
2007-09-30 15:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this person go. There are plenty of decent people out there. Don't seek revenge. Eventually all the cheaters get exactly what they deserve, and in the meantime you'll have spent years of your life in a happy, fulfilling relationship.
2007-09-30 15:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t be a loser. Think positive. Hey you suffered a blow ,but youré still here. Lighten up on yourself. Gosh. I mean, their are so many other beautiful humans here on this Earth. Millions. What are you so worried about ? Maintain and improve your Skills, while you are wounded in Battle (Life) . You´ll come back Victorious. Life is full of ups and Downs. Profitize during your recovery. Think and Think big !!!!!!!!
2007-09-30 15:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they really worth harping over if they leave, even after all of your efforts to rectify the situation?
Let karma work its job. Most of the time, when someone leaves someone for someone else, they rarely are able to stay together (trust issues). If they would leave someone for someone else, who's to say they won't do the same to the other person?
2007-09-30 15:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by andjan82 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the thing is if she goes off with someone else let her
because she can't be the right person for you. You seem
like a really nice person you don't need to be with someone like this. Good luck I truly hope you meet someone who deserves you.
2007-10-04 14:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by snowbirdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let karma take care of it. They'll get theirs eventually.
2007-09-30 15:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma baby. They aint worth the time......
2007-09-30 15:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bob D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋