My bf and I had been together for 11 years and were engaged.... We broke up a few weeks ago.... We were having a lot of problems.... He was the one that wanted the break-up more so than me.... I have done a lot of thinking and don't want to lose him.... I want to be w/ him for thr rest of my life.... I feel our problems/issues can be worked through and we could really be happy again.... When we first broke up he was really leaning toward making things work and getting back together.... We spoke today and he really feels like it is over now.... He wants his freedom and has been going out and having fun.... I have been doing the same but I believe will wear off quickly and the love we have is so real.... BTW I am 26 and he's 28.... So it's natural to feel that way as we're young.... Will he get bored when the excitement of partying wears off and come back.... ? He says he feels like a caged bird who needs to fly..... Please help guide me.... I want him back so badly.... !
2007-09-30 07:48:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends. i dunno if i would wait for him, who know whats gifts he'll come back with.
2007-09-30 08:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep someone that doesn't want to be kept....If the math is right...you have been with him since you were 15 and he was 17? That is a very long time and you both were very young....It is possible that that he the partying attitude will wear off and he may come back...but why would you want to wait for him? I think you should move on with your life...and if you are meant to be together you will be.
2007-09-30 07:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard telling.....but understand this the thrill of partying doesnt just go away. If he does come back to you he will need to go out with the boys everyonce and awhile, which is perfectly normal. Some women don't like that fact but its important to a mans social development. Respect his space, and enjoy the time he shares with you, if he ever shares time with you that is.
good luck....
2007-09-30 08:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by eric54_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is what my man told me 10 years ago when he was 30 that he was sick of partying and it was out of his system and now he is 40 and it is even worse. Some men just won't grow out of it. It is a thrill and they want to feel young. Take my advise if he keeps it up...leave! Don't get stuck like me!
2007-09-30 08:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he'll come back after he is done with his new flings and no body else wants him. He'll come running back to you who are desparate for him,and then it starts all over again. You'll be married to the loser and 33 years old still writing on here but then it will be " Will my hubby ever stop cheating on me"? He is the father of our kids. Please!
2007-09-30 10:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the thrill will wear off,.... we all need to grow up at some point, will he come back to you, who knows, do you want him back??
2007-09-30 08:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually after he has partied and screwed all the girls in town he might come back to you ? but do you really want him after that? come on have some dignity and let him go. me and my man party together with our Friends
2007-09-30 08:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he will get over this stage .....it seems like you have been 2gether since high school. That is what is killing him, he wants something new....but if it true love he WILL be back. Just enjoy yourself if it is meant to be it will be!!
2007-10-04 07:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like his thrill and excitements with someone else other then you no i would not wait. f that his lost. live your life girlfriend
2007-10-04 07:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by passionatetrauma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you already ask this question? You need to move on.
2007-09-30 08:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-09-30 10:32:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋