I'm fifteen, and met this girl at my school. She's a lesbian. And I really like her. It's weird though, cause I have NEVER had a crush on a chick. This is a first.
I dont know what to do and am not sure I even want to tell her.
I havent even told anyone that I have a "thing" for her.
2007-09-30 05:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, how do you know she's a lesbian? Second of all, you can like someone and it not be in a sexual way but sounds like you're not talking about that.
I would just say walk away. That way you will not be hurt if rejection happens, she won't be hurt or offended and you may find that this is just a passing fancy that next week will be a crush on the boy next door.
2007-09-30 05:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by rann_georgia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 15. it's common to have a crush on someone of the same sex. it doesn't necessarily mean you're a lesbian. many times, it's more of an emotional crush, rather than sexual. give yourself some time to sort out your feelings. if you still feel this way in a few weeks maybe it's for real. though 15 is to young to start anything serious with either sex.
2007-09-30 05:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a while and see. If, in a few weeks, you still have a crush on her, maybe talk to her about it.
2007-09-30 06:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by SpartFarkles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very easy to communicate that the facts that your're both has the same orientation, so don't be afraid to talk to her.
2007-09-30 05:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nam D. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU YOUNG PEOPLE HAVE BEEN SO BRAIN WASHED, IT'S NOT A NATURAL BEHAVIOR TO HAVE A CRUSH ON THE SAME SEX. I'M SURE YOU LIKE HER AS A FRIEND, BUT NOTHING ELSE. DON'T GO DOWN THAT ROAD, WE HAVE ENOUGH PROBLEM IN THE WORLD.
2007-09-30 05:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
youre secret is safe w us . you just learned something about yourself , which is not a bad thing . dont stress about the situation .
2007-09-30 07:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to get attracted to the same sex while your growing up , it happend to all of us, i suggest you wait a while and get to know her abit more , its not good to rush into things at once.
2007-09-30 05:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
stay away
2007-09-30 05:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋