Get an attorney. Have child support stipulated in the separation agreement.
2007-09-30 05:52:51
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answered by tallerfella 7
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The thing is, if you are planning to divorce at some point, just do it. Dating while only separated will only bring you headaches as your actions can work against you.
Once you are legally divorced from this man, I'm sure you can come up with someone to watch your child for a few hours on the weekend while you date. Quit whining and acting like it's your husband's fault that you cannot go out all the time because he will not watch his child.
The two of you need to actually think of the child instead of all the freedoms you do not have because he will not accommodate you.
2007-09-30 12:41:27
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answered by drewxjacobs 6
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You have separated from your husband and seeing someone else you have a child and he know longer will take care of the child so that you can have some free time. so all you can do now is work , you are not wrong for wanting to have a break he is his child also and should spend quility time with him. It sounds like to me that your husband is being jealous, because he figures if he doesnt watch the baby you cant go out and perhaps he thinks this will get you to back together again. is this a legal separation because if it is than he has to have vistation rights which he has to spend time with the baby . unless he doesnt want to does he support this child at all.
best of luck
2007-09-30 13:19:01
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answered by mmurray001 5
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Well,I see why you are not with him. He agrees to to be separated and when you move on in your life he takes it out on the child!! The most important thing here is your son....it is not about him anymore or jealousy issues he is dealing with now but what is best for his child. If he is available to spend time with his son there is no reason he should not offer to do it than to have him be with a sitter. It appears that you can't count on him to work this out .....so you may have to find someone that you can trust to babysit when you need time for yourself.
2007-09-30 13:09:28
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answered by Anonymous
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It's a control issue, he feels if you don't have any freedom then you will have to run back to him and it seems like that's not something you want to do since you are seeing someone else. He probably thinks that she can't have no fun if she's stuck in the house raising our son and can't find anyone to replace me with. Or he may still want to be with you.
2007-09-30 12:52:55
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answered by temptingreeta 1
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if he is your ex
then both of you share the responsibilities of raising your son
and that means he is allowed to have a life
and so do youso if he has given up on looking after your son
take him to court
for full custody
restricted visitation rights
and up the child support
that will put a crimper in his dating lifestyle
as for you
you have to find someone to look after you little one if you want to go out from time to time
this is why you must be a social person
to form networks
and use the resources you find at hand
anything less is an excuse on your part
2007-09-30 12:45:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Child support is partially based on the amount of time that the child spends with each parent. It would sound that your child support would go up. With the money, you could get a sitter.
He would need to decide. See his child, or pay you more money in support. Which do you think that he will pick?
2007-09-30 12:41:38
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answered by Steve B 6
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YES YOU SHOULD HAVE TIME TO YOURSELF (AND HE SHOULD SPEND TIME W/ HIS SON) BUT THE FACT IS , YOU ARE STILL MARRIED IF YOU ARE SEPARATED. HE ISN'T YOUR EX YET AND YOU SHOULD NOT BE DATING TIL YOUR MARRIAGE IS OVER.(AKA:DIVORCED!) I DONT BLAME HIM FOR BEING UPSET THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE ENOUGH RESPECT FOR THE MARRIAGE (EVEN THO ITS OVER) TO WAIT. YOU DEMEANED THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP AND THATS INSULTING. SURELY YOU WERE IN LOVE AT SOME POINT AND HAD PARTS THAT WERE GOOD AND WOULDN'T TRADE FOR ANYTHING? LIKE MAYBE YOUR SON? IF YOU ASK ME, YOU MADE A BIG MISTAKE DATING ALREADY AND HE'S HURT AND INSULTED. HAVE RESPECT AT LEAST FOR HIM AS YOUR CHILDS FATHER....
2007-09-30 14:35:05
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answered by trixxxi 2
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Guy might be jealous that you are dating and he isnt.
Get a babysitter and go out.
Moms need a life away from kids.
If Dad doesnt understand. Give him the kids for a week.
2007-09-30 12:51:06
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answered by Bob D 6
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No -however, please put your child first because obviously your ex isn't. The one person who will hurt the most is the child -not you (trying to get on with your life) not your Ex ( divorce seeing people but jealous of your relationship). Please focus on the kid and who ever in your life will have to understand
2007-09-30 12:59:41
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answered by Anonymous
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