okay, well i really dont think this is, but im a sensitive person. I wish that i wasnt but. On saturday i tried getting jonas brother tickets for 5 hours, and the line was busy. and then, now i cant even go. then my friend gets a new puppy, that i wanted for 3 years, and in a months asking she gets one. she already has a dog and a bird that she doesnt even care about! then i came home and cried because i feel like she gets everything she wants in the top of a hat. i dont think its fair at all! dont say i am immature. because im more mature then her. and many people know that.
2007-09-30 04:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by headfirstfearless<3 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok i dont really think your immature as much as i think your telling your friend way to much,, i had a friend that when we talked, and i would tell her things i wanted to get or if we went shopping i would see a shirt i wanted but couldnt get it at that time, so i thought i'd wait til payday,, well everytime my so called friend would go get these things i wanted for herself then show me,, what did she want to be my twin,, or didnt she have her own way of thinking about things,, i ended up going shopping with her again and i picked out a shirt i said i wanted,, but didnt get it,, and kiddo it was really ugly,, guess who i seen wear it a few days later,, yes her,, so the moral to my story when u tell someone something that you want and they go get it its because they admire you n your taste,, its a compliment,,even tho she's screwing u over by getting theses things,, just stop telling her your wants,,,, and try to tell her u want something that u really dont want an see if she gets that to,, then u know she's copying your style,,so dont be mad,,, and dont cry about the little things in life,, you will get what u want,, sooner or later,, everything happens for a reason x0x0x0 take care and keep your chin up,,,, remember,,"Some thing are better not said than said at all"
lol i learned that myself x0x0x0x0 take care and i wish i could buy your puppy for u,,but im sure you'll find something even cooler x0x0x0x0x0x0x take care kiddo
2007-09-30 04:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by BonnieJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's upsetting not being able to see one of your favorite bands in concert. However, instead of dwelling on it, maybe you could just make plans to get tickets in advance and look forward to seeing them the next time they are in your area. The guys in the Jonas Brothers are young and have a long career ahead of them, so I'm sure there will be plenty more opportunities for you to see them.
I understand that you've wanted a dog for three years, but maybe your parents can't give you one because they don't feel like they have the money to take care of it. If your friend gets everything she wants, maybe it's because her parents are financially well off.
Personally, I think you will turn out to be the better person in the end as a result of not getting everything you want. Kids who are given whatever they want by their parents usually wind up spoiled and can't do anything for themselves.
2007-09-30 05:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I don't think you should get upset about what your friend gets you should be pleased for her. You say that she doesn't look after her pets well that means that when she is older she won't have any pets then. At least when you are old enough and living on your own and you finally get your puppy you will respect it more and enjoy it more because it was something you have really wanted and that is nicer than having what you want all the time when you want - you do have no respect for anything when you have parents that spoil there children like that.
2007-09-30 05:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making the choice to be angry and upset. Why not try feeling happy and grateful for your friend instead? If you continue to feel upset and sorry for yourself, what do you feel will keep coming to you? Your friend knows that she will get what she wants, when she wants it. She isn't thinking about why she won't get it. Start believing that you already have what you want and feel grateful for the things you have. By making the change in yourself, the good things will start coming to you.
2007-09-30 04:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by synda72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that we NEED reasons to be upset or angry, emotions aren't generally based on logic.
Life isn't fair, some people are born into families that have more, or get more than we do. However, the only thing you can do about it, is be successful in your life so you can buy yourself what you want when you are older!!!
2007-09-30 04:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your friend is just spoiled so i wouldnt worry about her, but on the other hand if it was a sibling getting everything then i would be upset too!
2007-09-30 04:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by u don't know me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ur jealous?
it's natural to feel upset and angry about this, but try not to...try n look on the bright side n be happy with what u've got...
2007-09-30 04:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by $he 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sheer jealousy. You have to change your thinking altogether or you will remain unhappy for nothing.
2007-09-30 04:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe theirs a monetary difference(money $$$$) or maybe shes just a spoiled rotten brat and your just someone who actually has to work for her items which makes you a better person
2007-09-30 04:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by theendishere1232000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah, kick your friends ***, at least it'll cheer you up.... and next time, quit dillydallying around and act fast so you dont end up crying about something.
2007-09-30 04:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋