ok I'm a woman..he's a guy friend..please tell me what you think :
He sometimes goes to gay bars. (this could be to pick up girls..I dont know!)
He said that he cant get used to looking at 2 guys or 2 girls kissing. (this goes against my suspicions but I think it could have been thrown in to test my reaction to gays/bisexuals)
He went on vacation with a guy friend in a car, sleeping in the car as well with him.
He worked in the navy for a few years (dont mean this in a presumptive way but it is an all male environment)
He broke up with a girlfriend and when friends offered sympathy,he looked surprised and just said it didnt really matter to him as 'it didnt go well for them'. It just sounded
a bit 'cold' to me.
He is attracted to women he gets sexually aroused by them (a female friend of mine made out with him so I know this)
He has a photo of himself and another 'guy friend ' on the beach and the 'guy friend' was naked.
He is incredibly good looking.
2007-09-29 22:04:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Does it really matter?? Is it really any of your business?
2007-09-29 22:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay listen here, pretty much you are just being presumptuous.
There are no rules to sexuality and picking one, some gay men have flamboyant characteristics some do not. Maybe he is just open minded. My best friend and I have seen each other naked, and if i happened to have a naked picture of her people would just be like go figure not ohh are they gay? We have known each other for 17yrs.,
I had to date a bi man for 8months to determine that he was actually gay and the relationship would never work, he was a jerk off but that's besides the point.
You cant always point and say hey he's bi cause his pants are tight , he reads gq, and crys at a walk to remember.
Your best bet is to just ask your friend, the only way you are going to know for sure is by talking to him or catching him tongue some hot young BO at deluxe.
We at yahoo do not have the psychic ability to read someones soul through the Internet and be like yep sure he's a top or bottom.
No offence meant by this, but in todays day and age things are not as cut and dry as they once were. The lines are blurred and the tides have turned.
good luck on you diagnosis.
2007-09-30 14:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Base on your narration, I strongly believe he is bisexual.
Your guy friend is attracted to both guys / girls who have some physical traits which appeal most to him for whatever reasons.
He is unlikely wanted to be bound by single relationship but more towards casual / sexual relationship with either guys or girls.
If you are in for fun, I think you find yourself a right candidate. Enjoy the fun and good luck!!
2007-09-30 05:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Alex, W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy's are omnisexual. Don't leave him alone with your guy friends, though, unitl he figures out he's yousexual in about ten years or sooner, hopefully. Study Emotional Intelligence and intuition and, best case scenario, you could teach him in six weeks with relapses so keep teaching. After all, you'd rather have an adult, of whichever sex, I hope.
2007-09-30 07:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already asked this question
Why is it on here twice?
Answer: he's gay.
He has a photo of himself and another 'guy friend ' on the beach and the 'guy friend' is naked
2007-09-30 08:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. He could just be very comfortable with his sexuality, or it is possible hes having other feelings and in his head he is trying to work them out.
2007-09-30 05:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by a-z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's gay. He might be bisexual but to me his behavior points towards that of a straight guy who might be highly homosocial (he prefers the company of other men, he is comfortable around men more than women). You might be confusing his homosocial behavior with homoerotic behavior.
2007-09-30 06:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, got a little too much time on your hands haven't you? Who cares if he's gay or not? What difference would it make? Just leave him alone and grow up.
2007-09-30 05:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by jenny84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make a friend is a friend is a friend end of story
2007-09-30 06:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He love to swing in bothways
2007-10-01 05:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by yusdz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm Gay ... are you happy now...Is that alright with you?
2007-09-30 06:02:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋