If you approached a person to have sex with & it turns out that he/she is the conservative type who wants to reserve sex only for the one the person is in love with. In this situation:
Would you just walk away?
OR
Play on the person even more till you somehow try coaxing im/her into agreeing?
2007-09-29 21:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i would respect there feelings and be either a friend
or help them find there mr or mrs right
2007-09-29 21:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You coax them by not being who you are either. It's a two way street. Either you have an identity or you compromise it and lose yours. It's that you don't know which way you want to go or rather which way you are going. Emotions go one way while the head goes another. It's better to take your whole self one way or the other or you remain divided and are only following your emotions. No brain involved. That causes nightmares as sad dreams are us trying to reconcile our thinking with our emotions. A good one is doing it on a higher level or level where we're more in sync with ourselves. Some conservatives make me sick and some liferal too. Where did you get the tolerance unless your half and half, half reasonable and half nasty? You decieve others, you deceive yourself. If it gets bad enough you have an identity crisis. I wouldn't work toward it, but away from it, like anything that's not profitable. To think conservative and live liberal... well you can be either with no integraty. Integraty is to be integrated a whole real person. An integrated person could be a conservative or a liberal, if you get stuck. Apparent contradicions, not? But not really. If you don't like stuck people and your stuck in your libido, aren't you one of them? lol Ain't life grand?
2007-09-30 08:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away in a hurry...they are hanging onto to straight bull crap that doesn'f fly in the gay world...nonsense.! Sex is a part of love..a big part of it...why waste time on someone that may be completely incompatable with you..find out first before investing any emotions or energy into the deal. Men are not like women, thankfully. This crap about love first, then sex is so much bull...trust me, no man has that much of a treasure waiting for you. What is in his head is the treasure...what is in his jeans is functionary. And if it doesn't function with your body, move on before wasting one more second. This is so much HS bull crap! PS..if you look like your avatar, who in the hell would say no to you?
2007-09-30 05:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i wouldn't play the person because i wouldn't want to get played myself. i can be a b i t c h but if no means no then hey I'm down with that. ill use the girl I'm talking to for an example, she knows i like her a hell of alot but she knows i would never disrespect her in anyway. we've kissed and all but that's about it, sure id love to do more but I'm not going to force anything. if it happens it happens if it doesn't then ill get over it.
2007-09-30 05:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play.
2007-09-30 12:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Dinah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on if I wanted more than just casual sex myself
most of my life
especially when I was so prolifically being casual
I would love to be attracted to a person like that
2007-09-30 17:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by genntri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a glaya. HA! Enjoy the shrimp folks!
2007-09-30 04:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goal would be to become the man she's in love with.
2007-09-30 04:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk away- all you are looking for is casual sex, if she doesn't want to do it then deal with it
xx
2007-09-30 05:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Thomas A.
2007-09-30 12:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋