Should I just say it or should I be extra nice because it might be a hard thing to face?
2007-09-29 19:00:11 · 35 answers · asked by emma 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You shouldn't worry about it too much because let's just say you were a lesbian and someone went up to you and asked you wouldn't you feel embarrassed? I know I would and I wouldn't want to say a single word.
2007-09-29 19:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's lesbian not lesbo, so to begin with your bias is showing or you are not admitting a few things about yourself.
First, why do you care if she is a lesbian?
Second, will it make a difference in your life?
Third, why do you care?
If she is or isn't, this is something that she will work out in her own time and not something that you should even be concerned about unless she comes to you as a friend and seeks council. If this doesn't happen, then I would suggest that you leave her alone and let her live her own life and you live yours.
2007-09-29 19:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by kismetsguardian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbo? Why are you calling her a lesbo? I don't think she would appreciate it. Why do you need to confront her about it? What has she done to you, that was so horrible that you have to determine, her sexual orientation is a hard thing for her to face?
Why should she admit it? What good would it do to you? She will come out, when she wants to.
Are you a closet lesbian? Are you looking for someone to help you come out?
The best thing to do is, leave her alone. She doesn't need you to make her life hard. Other people like you are doing it already.
2007-09-29 19:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by sabrewilde666 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she is and does not want to admit it how do you know it? Kids are cruel but teens are worse, let life be. If you had an extra ear would you like to be confronted about it? Once you grow up you will realize that weather she was or not it doesn't even matter because in the end she is a person, just like you.
2007-09-29 19:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by wiseornotyoudecide 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it going to change your life in any way form or fashion if u do? leave her alone. She is already going through a hard time as is. why u care to mention it, let her do what she does and unless your her best friend and u need to know, mind your own business
2007-09-29 19:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by shareecee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How about you mind your own business and let her deal with it when she wishes too? Has she forced you out of the closet as a "Straight" ?? No? Well then just leave it.
And people wonder why there is such a huge percentage of gay and lesbian youth suicide.....
2007-09-29 23:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by adamtodd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care and why would you say anything at all to her except hi? Maybe she is maybe she isn't, but she certainly doesn't need you to let her know her own sexuality--either way. If she wants to come out, she will talk with her friends and family, not some girl at school......that is IF she is gay.
2007-09-29 19:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You leave her alone. It is not your job to comment on or question someone's sexual oriantation. I think you have to examine your motives. Do you want to put her down, chastice her, make her feel insignifcant? Do you want to hit on her? I can't imagine any other reason to pursue the issue with her, so which reason are you working on?
2007-09-29 19:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by davster 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are obviously in the closet and curious, just go up to her and give her a passionate kiss. She'll get the idea!
2007-09-29 19:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bo T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and concentrate on your own affairs. Shes not doing any harm to you is she so why do you feel you have to confront her.? It"s not your business.
2007-09-29 19:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋