omg!!! i think im pregnant what do i do?

Question

i dont know whst to do i havent had my period in 2 months and 2 months ago was the last time i had sex which was almost everyday, i have had really bad stomach pains they arent like cramps it just hurts and ive been feeling a little nauseated but the bad part about possibly being pregnant is that im only 14 what do i do i dont want to tell my parents please help me!!

Answer 1

first off, leslie, you must go and buy a pregnancy test in order to make 100% sure that you are pregnant.

secondly, you must talk to somebody at the junior school and see what are your eductional posibilities that are available for you. here is a piece of free advice: first study very well and when it is almost to give birth ask for help from them if by any chance you can return over there to study. most likely they will not deny you because you have excellent grades....however if your grades are poor, then they just might tell you to go to an adult school in which it is acceptable but there a down side: you will be unable to see your classmates and/or graduate with them unless you petition the school board that you want to get graduated with them.

thirdly, your best source of free advice and not to mention lodging will come from your parents.

now here a free advice just from me to you. my nieces, who are have your age, are right now going with nice looking guys. some of them, on the other hand, wanted to spread their sexi legs wide opened but they came to me and seeked some help.

as an parent, I can tell you from pasy experience, that for the future that your boyfriend better wear a condom or you better wear one in case he doesn't want to wear one.

before you were one person now you have to think for the future and to graduate from high school but as well as from a university of your choice where you can get your AA or your BA in the degree the major that you do want and then after you have finished your studies at the university then you go and find an excellent job with a nice salary to tag along with it.

take care of yourself and your pregnancy, leslie. the next time I hear from you I want to hear good news. Is that okay with you?

Answer 2

I know how u feel so Im not here 2 criticize. My sister is pregnant and she is 14 as well. I guess u should find an adult u trust 2 keep ur secret and get them 2 take u 2 the clinic. If ur not pregnant, then ur secret of having sex will still be kept, hopefully, and will not be blown out of proportion like it would if u had went 2 ur parents. But if u R pregnant(which is more likely), then make sure. Keep in touch w/ the doctor and the adult u trust. If u know ur not ready 4 this baby, then an abortion is best. Then no one will know except yall 3. If u DO want the baby, then take care of urself and tell ur parents when u think the time is right...

Answer 3

First off, stop panicking for no reason and buy a pregnancy test. Find out for sure before you go crazy. It is normal for someone your age to be irregular. I could nag you about not being old enough to be having sex but the past is in the past. If you are pregnant, you don't have a choice but to seriously discuss what you want to do...do you want to keep the baby? do you want an abortion? Is the baby's father going to be involved? More than anything you need to get educated and if your are not pregnant, you need to consider birth control and emergency birth control. You need to decided whether to talk with your parents or not. Whatever the case, I wish you luck. I encourage you to explore this website. www.teenwire.com It has a lot of answers to your questions and other options you may wish to consider.

Answer 4

I will give you some sound advice because several daughters of my friends are exactly your age:

1. go to a pharmacy and buy a over the counter pregnancy test.

2. if the test shows that you are positive, then you must find out who is the father and tell it to him. however if the test turns negative then no need to press the panic button.

3. assuming the test result is positive, then I would recommend to you to go to a church and to open your heart to God so that He can listen to your needs because afterwards you go to talk with your folks and you will be not only telling them how you feel but also you will be telling them the honest truth. If they tell you to have a miscarriage then you must prove it to them that you to be treated as an adult (although you are a minor).

I wish you the very best of luck with your pregnancy.

Answer 5

Take a pregnancy test, if it's negative, you might want to get a blood test. Whatever you do, if you are pregnant, keep that precious baby! I would recommend adoption strongly, maybe an open one if you are interested in keeping in touch. You need to tell the father of the baby and your parents. Don't let anyone talk you into killing that special baby though.

And for future reference, save yourself for marriage for now on. You'll be much happier you did. You don't want any STDs or other children being born out of wedlock. Plus the emotional damage that comes from premarital sex is too much for anyone to have.

Answer 6

First off you need to make sure that you are pregnant before doing anything else so you need to get a test. They have them at the dollar store but if you are embarrassed maybe you can have a friend buy one for you. If you find out that you are the best thing is to tell and adult even if it is not your parents at first. Maybe a counselor or teacher at school that you trust or maybe a friends mom or something and they can help you. You will eventually have to tell your parents but if you have someone there with you it will help. Good luck

Answer 7

Looking at your previous questions, darlin... I think you need a mentor. Just someone you can talk to and help you make some wiser choices. If it's problems at home b/c of the runaway situation, if they overreact there should be other places that you could stay. Take a over the counter pregnancy test. If you are embarrassed, have a friend pick one up. Dollar Tree has them for $1.

Research, honey. I'm 28 and pregnant. I'm single. I'm reseraching my every move from living arrangements to baby diapers. I'm looking at how everyone else is handling it who is in my situation. The internet is full of all sorts of wonderful information.

Answer 8

First of all, stomach pains aren't really a pregnancy symptom. But missing your period is.
Were your periods regular to being with? Or did you miss them from time to time?
Get a home pregnancy test, or go to a clinic and get tested. Find out for sure if you are. Then talk to you parents.

If you're not, and you're planning on having sex, you really need to get on some birth control. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you.

Answer 9

Like everyone said. Please buy a test kit or have your partner buy the test kit.
I think it's too late to tell you not to have sex at 14, but I believe you are bearing the consequences of your choices.
It also looks like you've had your runins with the law. I hope you'll find time to straighten out your life soon. Please find a good counselor or probation officer to talk with. Take care and good luck in your future. You desparately need help now since your parents are not really helping you out.

Answer 10

First, calm down a little. Go to a nearby 99 cent store to get a pregnancy test kit. ( I and my wife used a pregnancy test kit from a 99 cent store and found out my wife was pregnant with our first child.)

If it is positive, tell your parents. They might just comfort you and get all the medical attention and counseling you need in this situation. Your parents might be upset a little, but they will be your best helpers now.