Well im 15 & i just got home from a party & i have made a HUGE mistake.... i had sex with a guy i had a crush on ( i liked him last year). I feel horrible, tonight was the first time i have EVER had sex. I am on birth control ( to help regulate my periods), & we did use a condom, but what if i get pregnant, what if i get a an std ( i don't know if Brandon's ever had sex before). I just got off my period what are the chances of me getting pregnant? How soon will i find out if i am pregnant? No rude lectures please i know what i did is stupid.
2007-09-29 15:52:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes we really did use a condom.
2007-09-29 15:59:06 · update #1
Don't panic! It sounds like even though you might regret the way you lost your virginity, you did all the right things. You were on the pill and made him wear a condom. Good for you! If you JUST got off your period, it makes the chances of pregnancy even lower. As far as an STD - well, wearing that condom was a good choice. It sounds like if you are already on the pill you have a gyno already. Maybe in a few more weeks you should try to schedule a check up just to be safe. I really wouldn't worry... you did all the right things to prevent STDs and pregnancy.
My only advice: be REALLY careful about having one night stands. They are not the best way to start establishing your sexuality. You get to decide what kind of woman you want to be. I am not lecturing you for having sex by any means, just know that sex gets so much better when it is with someone you love and who loves you.
2007-09-29 16:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No lectures, I promise.
You are on birth control, which as long as you take it every day at the same time has like a 99.something % effectiveness. Used properly, and if they don't break, condoms have a similar effectiveness. So pregnancy is pretty much amazingly unlikely.
You used a condom the whole time, I'm assuming. Let me know if you need the "proper use" discussion, but if you did, then your chances of getting an STD are just about zero. I mean herpes simplex can be passed from lip to lip by kissing, but you can get mono from drinking from someone else's glass. But odds are very good that you're fine.
Quoted directly from an e.p.t. information site; "e.p.t Pregnancy Test can be used as soon and you miss your period and any day thereafter. If you prefer to test early, e.p.t Pregnancy Test can be used as soon as four days before you expect your period to start. If you test early and get a "not pregnant" result, there is still a chance that you may be pregnant."
You might want to get an e.p.t. from the drug store just to check, but if you are on birth control and if you used a condom the right way, you should be fine.
So please don't feel too bad, ok? It sounds like you might have done what you did as a bit of a crazy impulse, but trust me, EVERYONE makes mistakes like that at some point in their life. Anything that happens in life that you survive and that you learn something from isn't ALL bad.
And even if you rushed into this, it sounds like you took the right precautions. I'm proud of you for that, OK? You kept your head even as you were rushing into it, if that makes sense.
But you should be fine.
2007-09-30 06:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lectures, nah! I am glad you got a chance to see what it's like with your crush... Now that that's out of the way- there is almost no chance you are (or gonna) be pregnant or have caught any STDs (remember you can only get any STDs if your crush has any STDs) using birth control AND a condom! Just chill you are probably fine, we all make mistakes.
2007-09-30 22:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you getting pregnant are slim if you take the b.c. pills regularly as prescribed, especially if you used a condom. The same is true of the STD part, you should be safe if the condom was used and didn't break.
Thank you for asking this question and not torturing yourself for doing something you feel was stupid. Everyone makes mistakes that they regret later, don't beat yourself up over it. It might help if you talk to someone you can trust, maybe a parent or an adult friend.
You seem like a conscientious and honest girl.
2007-09-29 22:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by ~Kelly~ 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you being pregnant are very very small! I hope that helps a little! You're on birth control, you used a condom and just got off period-so you were not ovulating. Try not to worry. You can take a home pregnancy test or wait to see it have next period. Best to you!!!!
2007-09-29 23:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am glad that you two were smart enough to use protection, and I am really glad that you are on the pill. Chances are, you will not get pregnant, considering that you used both a condom and the birth control. If you are concerned about getting an STD, you should get tested. You can never be to safe.
2007-09-29 23:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by kat_kris2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a very small chance you could get pregnant as you used two forms of birth control however, every time you have sex whether it be protected or unprotected there is a chance. Just wait until your period is due and if you are late then get a pregnancy test.
2007-09-29 22:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its very unlikely that you have fallen pregnant being as you used 2 methods of contraception, you shouldn't get any STD's either as a condom is a barrier to that (unless he had crabs or something). I won't lecture you 15 is young but not THAT young and it was safe sex so thumbs up. If you regret having a one nighter with this guy then lessons learned hey?
2007-09-29 23:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by SmEllY! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chances of you being pregnant are very, very small. The pill is 98% effective when used consistently and condoms are about 89%... combine them and you have less than one percent chance of pregnancy, and that's before taking your usual odds into account.
You wouldn't know until after your next period is due, so sorry you have to wait for confirmation.
I applaud you for using protection, and I hope you can stop worrying.
2007-09-29 23:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by KC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering you are on birth control, you used a condom and your not around you "fertile time" you should be ok. IF you are pregnant (which i doubt) you will not be able to tesy for about 2-3 more weeks. Wait for your period, dont freak if its a day or 2 late. stress can cause a delay. We all make mistakes. Its human.....Goodluck Sweetie!!!
2007-09-29 23:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋