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2007-09-29 15:30:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, it becomes more infrequent and the lust factor has worn off.
2007-09-29 15:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's because you've exhausted all leads and can't find the fire anymore. You can try all the tricks in the book but something is off and then when you try to get it back, the other one is suspicious of where you got the ideas and "who" taught you that. So, with the way the world is, and all the other distractions we have like children, work, finances, social groups that you try to maintain, books that aren't being read, and all that, no one has time for good sex. OR once you've done it all, what else is there to do? less frequency and no quality or imagination.
2007-09-29 22:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by for7949 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Health point of view, it is not worst , if both r very healthy ..... no matter the frequency and quality ... ( quality is only a mind set factor ... )
so, the question u asked arises not health point of view, but with the point of view of the relations ...
sex is worst, if it is with other than ur spouse ......
it is not worst ... . if it is with ur spous. .....
sex makes the increases intimacy .... the more the sex, the more the intimacy ..... this is in fact a good sign of very happy couple ...
quality depends how u make it ..... that in turn depends on interests ..... but as a thumb rule, if the couple enjoyed it means that is the " quality" for them, in their view .....
2007-09-29 23:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frequency? I'd say yes. After being married 5-10 yrs, there's the pitter patter of little feet, 2am feedings, etc. Who would feel amorous after looking after little ones all day and being sleep deprived every night?
Quality? I'd say absolutely no! By this time each partner should know what makes the other happy in the bedroom.
2007-09-29 22:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well young person, the all might sexual intercourse still stands up to the test of time with the added attractions of a deeper spirtual bonding, the confidence of experience, the luxury of really fulfilling your desires, the contentment of cozing up to your favorite person and making the world go away. Money can't buy a good marriage and its a secret not many know these days.
2007-09-29 22:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it all depends on the couple. If the couple often had sex they are very close in relation and one body. If the couple had less time to sex which is work in the way, the relation is thhiner and fragile. It could be that as time pass by people's body grew weaker and threw away the sex urge.
2007-09-29 22:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by The Boy Next Door 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not worst as you said. what It declines is the number of frequencies to make sex often as possible to compare to ealy ages due to some factors like work pressures that cause mental stresses, emotional stresses and physical deteriorations. When person having too much work load cause you slowdown too, thinking of financial problems and family matters affected performances sexually too and eve your age goes longer your endurance decline that you are affected physically. The lack of excercises daily caused another factor to decline your fitness to perform well.
What best solution to regain it back, if the marriage goes on longer the lust and desires to make sex often ususally fading away thus looking something to enhances sex activity helps such as experiment, adoption of sex toys, watching together of pornos, opening the idea of threesome, considering the idea of observation of swingers groups or even the idea of wife swapping as long as both spouses have willingness to approve and consented. Some spouses have to continue dating, hanging with their married couples in the picnics or in the bars, some spouses have their own planned sex-date outside their home during weekends. They need to experiement anything that helps them to regain the lost sexual desires to each other to keep their marriage longer and happy.
2007-09-30 00:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quality declines substantially! There is nothing more boring than the same old boring sex with the same old boring woman.
2007-09-29 22:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Trevor S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that I have been married 15 years and have 2 kids and my spouse and I are like two newly weds.....our sex life stalled a couple of years but has regained momentum and shows no signs of slowing down now! AND....its only boring if YOU are boring!!!!!
2007-09-29 22:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by momuv02 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on how you maintain your relationship. Maturity doesn't change sex, but it can make it better.
2007-09-29 22:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋