ok i dont know what to do here since i absoloutely with a passion hate my dad. hes such an asshole and do not tell me to try to get along with them because thats not why i am writing this. he sucks. he bitches and complains about everything and is such a disgrace to me. he never talks and is an alcoholic and sometimes hits me or attempts to when hes mad and always tries to work to get out of going to family parties. also he bitches about me going to the school i am going to since its a catholic school out of my town. he bitches about the sports i do field hockey, horseback riding and lacrosse. he also complains driving me places and stuff. i want to own/lease a horse but i am 14 and i dont have anybody to drive me to the destination because my mother works nights and alls he does is sits home watches tv and drinks beer. he never helps my mom at all. i dont know why she married him but i want him out of my life dont tell me to go to counseling i seriously want my parents to divorce.
2007-09-29 15:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by arabss4life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
or at least a restraining order. it seems liek whatever i do is wrong and i have talked to my moma bout it and i guess she doesnt care about the impact this has on me im a freshman in high school and if she really did care about this and me she would have kicked him out or divorced by now. his brother aka my uncle also is having an affair with my aunt and my dads basically taking his brothers side!!!! I WANT HIM OUT OF MY LIFE!!!
2007-09-29 15:09:40 · update #1
OK GUESS WHAT IF UR HEAR TO ***** ABOUT ME WRITING THIS THEN UR AN ASSHOLE GOD DAMNIT I HATE AMERICA EVERYBODYS SUCH A ****** *****
2007-09-30 05:56:58 · update #2
if he hits you again, get out of there and get some legal separation, any father who hits his daughter, or any child for that matter, violently and deliberately should be locked up. stay safe.
2007-09-29 16:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i'm no longer able to reason with you, as a results of fact my dad isn't over-holding or something, yet i'm going to objective. once you are going to college next year, you will desire to be mature adequate to get a late bedtime. however the question is, have you ever tried to reason with him on that? try repeating each thing you pronounced to him, what you pronounced right here. perhaps he will easily comprehend his very own over-protectiveness, and alter some issues. As for shifting out, do you have any financial plans? the place will you reside? how can you help your self with out your mum and dad? shifting out of the homestead, potential your on your guy or woman, and you will desire to be certain you could help your self, with out anybody on the instant. And your mom hates it impressive? and you pronounced "Us", so i'm basically going to anticipate "Us" potential you and your mom, or you, and your mom, and a sister. Why do no longer you basically double/triple group him? He might comprehend, that as quickly as the two his daughter/s, and his spouse are impressive, some thing he's achieved must be incorrect, and he would re-think of each thing he's achieved so a good distance. And do you somewhat hate your dad? are you able to somewhat hate him for something of your existence? you will desire to comprehend, even although he's being over the the terrific option with being over-holding, he basically cares approximately you. All you're able to do, is the above, and ask him to tone it down somewhat. as a results of fact which you're around 17 impressive? you're basically approximately a grownup, and he has to comprehend that your no longer somewhat toddler anymore. i flow off subject be counted right here, yet basically attempt to reason with him, all-the-on an identical time as convincing him that he has to enable flow. Cya.
2016-10-10 01:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very frustated 14 with good reasons Everybody who lives with a acoholic is hell I m quite sure your mother is still living with your father for financial security Call the A A and ask them for the name of the group they create to help children of alcholic parents But if you do not want help from nobody its YOUr choise but you will have to assume all the responsibilites who come with your CHOISES
2007-09-29 15:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jeez, after reading this I bet he wants you out of his life as well!
What are you, as a 14 year old, doing making such posts in M&D category.
Sounds more like you should just gather with a few of your mates & have a good beach session!
2007-09-29 15:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
So what's you question? This category is for Marriage & Divorce. You just came here to ***** about your dad. Sorry your life is so miserable but then again, everyone has problems in their life. You can't run away from things you have to grow up and learn how to cope and be responsible for yourself.
2007-09-29 15:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Do you have grandparents who would take you??? call them and ask........ go talk to your school counselor........... your dad hitting you isnt allowed......... I hope you can find a place where you will feel safe and needed.......... call your grandparents or another relative..........please
2007-09-29 15:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋