2007-09-29 12:00:07 · 14 answers · asked by Baby G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should wait to find out you are pregnant first, not think. After you know tell him congratulations. If you approach something like it is a bad thing then you will likely get a negative reaction. No reason to be scared of something once it is done, it is a bit late for that part.
2007-09-29 12:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't necessarily TELL my husband. I woke up at 3 a.m. having to go to the bathroom, decided to take the pregnancy test then, and was floored when I saw "pregnant" on the stick even though I had a feeling I was. Walked out the bathroom, turned on the light, sat on the bed and tapped my husband and put the pregnancy test stick in his hand. He already knew what it was.lol So, taking that approach will get rid of stupid questions like "how do you know?" "are you sure?", etc. Best of luck,girl! Hope he's a good man.
2007-09-29 19:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by AirForce1 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I suggest finding out for sure if you are pregnant.
If you are, sit him down and say 'we are having a baby'
If you want to do something cute I say buy a cake and write 'your a daddy' on it
:)
2007-09-29 19:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am 42. i would just flat out tell the father that I was pregnant with his child and that if he didn't believe it that when the child was born we would have DNA testing done. Honey, you need his emotional, physical, and financial help now. Let's hope he steps up to bat and becomes a man!
2007-09-29 19:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbow Raven 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rent some movies, call him and tell him you want to have a romantic movie night. Rent movies like Shes Having A Baby, Three Men and a Baby, Knocked Up, etc. Hopefully ,hell get the idea.
2007-09-29 19:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Snowcountry 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell them. You need to also think about weather or not you want him to know. It sounds like you don't or you would not be asking that. You need to get into a conversation about weather or not he wants kids someday. Or just come out and tell him. If he is a real man he will take it just fine, if he is not you don't need him around then.
2007-09-29 19:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and say i'm gonna gain about 30 pounds (normal weight gain in pregnantcy) and it's not becuse i'm gonna eat more! LOL adding humor to a tence situation like this lights the blow ! Hope this helps! God Bless,Heather
2007-09-29 19:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by must_love_dogs_and_me 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
all i said was hey sweetie i think i am pregnant
with our first i waited til i was confirmed by a doctor then i left a message that said hey and his name i am pregnant
2007-09-29 19:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about, Im pregnant.
2007-09-29 19:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by charnik 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just sit them down and say I have some big news that might change our lives, but you have to promise to not freak-out. Then tell him.
2007-09-29 19:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋