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I'm a freshman in college and moved into the dorm a month ago. A bunch of us on our floor (in the same hallway) are all friends now at this point, but on the first day everyone was hanging out in one of the rooms getting to know each other. At that point, everyone was nice and cool, just meeting each other. Since then, one of the kids (and the kid next door to my room) has been cool and nice to everyone except me. He walks into the room if I'm talking to his roommate and greets me with "why don't you do me a favor and get out of my room" and he says the exact same thing if I walk in there to see what's going on if there are a lot of people in there (that are my friends). I've tried so hard to be friendly with him and everyone else, and I've never done anything to deserve this. Never have I derided him or spoken derisively. I've put up with this now on 10+ occassions just smiling and leaving the room since it is his after all. Is this verbal abuse and how should I respond from now on?

2007-09-29 11:04:50 · 3 answers · asked by ILuvTaraReid 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

3 answers

Sounds like he has a major chip on his shoulder.
Don't go in his dorm and avoid him. Ignoring him is gonna make him realize that you could give a crap about him. He sounds like a major wanker. Don't smile at him. Look right through him.
And remember, karma is a B! He will get his. Trust.

2007-09-29 11:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0 0

Ask him what the fu*k his problem is. It's most likely that he thinks that you've offended him in some way. Ask him what you did to deserve such treatment, and tell him that you have never meant to offend him, and he should stop treating you like a piece of sh*t.

2007-09-29 18:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

that is ot verbal abuse , it is his right not to like you or have you in his room ,stay out

2007-09-29 18:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nora 7 · 0 0

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