I am getting married,But I do not have alot of money .She think I do .I do not want to hurt her dream?

Answer 1

Frank, you need to come clean with her immediately about your true financial status.

If she loves *you* and not your money, the marriage may still go on, unless she's angry about being misled or allowed to draw the wrong conclusions without you correcting her.

If she no longer wants to marry you, you've either learned a valuable lesson about honesty, or narrowly dodged a bullet.

Answer 2

Come clean with her. It's really hard to keep hidden after the honeymoon. I mean, she may think you are an eccentric millionaire for whipping out the 2 for 1 dinner coupons at Sizzler, and driving a 1972 Chevy Vega now...but later she'll begin to suspect. Love is blind, it's not stupid.
Believe me, my wife thought I was a fighter pilot turned CIA agent...but after coming home from work wearing my Pacific Stereo name tag for the past 12 years, she's beginning to think I might just be a stereo salesman, and not a covert operative anymore!

Answer 3

Whoops! If you are gettin married, you two should know each other quite well by now, including each others assets, bank accounts, bills, debts, etc. Marriage IS a partnership, financially as well as sexually, romance-wise, housekeeping-wise, and any other wise.
It is time for a tete-a-tete, a heart-to-heart talk, revealing everything. Then if she is not happy, she just wasn't the gal for you.

Answer 4

If she truly loved you, she'd understand. Were you giving her false impressions in the first place?
What do you mean by hurt HER dream? Of living off of you? You should come clean ASAP before theres more damage.

Answer 5

well you guys are getting married you need to let her know. whats the budget or else you won't be happy.