will u revenge till death?or "forgive and forget"?
2007-09-29 09:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by Adham 1910 4 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
If someone i really love hurt me deeeeeeply !!!
ok ... actually ...
I don't think i know how to revenge asln ....
on the other hand,
I don't think i can forgive & forget ...
what a dilemma !!!
2007-09-29 09:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's your fiance. That's halfway married. There is nothing wrong with falling too deeply in love with your fiance. If you try holding back he might take that as you not wanting to be with him. Marriage deals a lot with trust. You love him and he loves you. Let yourself fall and trust that he'll catch you. If you can't trust him with that, I'd think about working on your trust. I don't blame you one bit though for being scared. It's hard to trust people after you've been hurt so badly. But when you get knocked down, you just have to pick yourself back up and keep trying. That's life. Honestly I congratulate you. So many people don't even allow themselves to love after just one bad fall. The risk is high, but the higher the risk, the greater the reward. He's only gone for a while out of the country. He'll be back and then you can spend the rest of your lives together. It's true that absence makes the heart grow fonder. And there is nothing wrong with that.
2016-05-17 04:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and forget and i'll tell u y
when u love someone deeply this love wouldn't change 180 degrees at once if this love hurt u deeply then u without dowbt will be sad and gloomy and also some hatred would appear but taking revenge till death isn't a good sulution even if this love is not loved truely
2007-09-30 08:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a way which is used by weak people and their love wasn't true. Why would he hurt me deeply anyway? I'm not a bad person so i deserve to be treated as good as it should be.
It happened once before, yes it was my ex, i said to myself, okay you wanna hurt me, go on but you'll be sorry by time cause i never treated you badly. I just said if you still love him love him from a far away distance rather than getting hurt beside him.
I moved on, it took months to forget all about us. At last i was free thinking of him as a lover ending up i learned that i have to use my mind also in these relationships. He still calling trying to get like i don't know.... I asked why do you call?he said you are my friend( i felt he wants me back by his voice tone) i told him we never been friends before , god bless you in your life and mine as well . Just leave me . Good luck and forget about me , we never meant to be with each other.
2007-09-29 10:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to "forgive and forget" but as many people hurt easily something is going on inside me :(
2007-10-01 13:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mom@do 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you forgive people who you love if you start thinking about revenge then it isn't truly love. If someone hurt you who you love then you would talk about it to make the situation better people who love each other don't think about revenge.
2007-09-29 10:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the hurt was related to a relationship then I firmly believe and follow the philosophy of Ivana Trump. Don't just take revenge take everything!
2007-10-01 00:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thank God this has never happened to me.
however, if i love someone, i cannot think of taking revenge .
what i usually do when i dont like something, i give it my back and carry on with my life as if it hasnt existed . i forget it with my will .
2007-09-29 12:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Moonrise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i really love them. Then i will forgive and forget, coz if i don't forget then i didn't really totally forgive.
2007-09-29 10:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is far more quenching than "forgiving and forgetting" but I think that it's better to forgive and forget, makes us more humain
2007-09-29 09:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kate :-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋