(i know there's no such word..hehe.. but it implies being the person dumped)..or as you as delicious as a dumpling?
2007-09-29 07:19:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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it's supposed to be "are you as..."..shucks cant spell today..lol.
2007-09-29 07:32:49 · update #1
I would much rather "be" dumped...
"Being" hurt has always been easier for my conscience than being the one "who" hurt...
Both have the same level of emotional pain, though...when you've lived with someone for years, the "estrangement" seperation causes "cosmic" anguish we never feel the likes of in any other situation (with the exception of the death of a loved one) but a break-up is kinda' like a "death" of someone, in that...that person suddenly disappears from your life as if they had died...
The 1st major break-up caused me to stare into space for four days, stunned, shocked, and empty...
The 2nd major break-up felt as bad as the first...but the pain wasn't such a "surprise" because I recognized it, and had experienced it before...
The 3rd major break-up...again equally painful...but that time I was ready, and knew what things to do to get over it fast...
Break-ups are a ......, though...no matter how you look at it...from either side...
2007-09-29 09:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both really suck, but I hate hurting others even if they deserve it. So, ideally, I would rather be the dumpee. I get plenty of experience as the dumper after I eat too many green grapes.
I can't even stand the thought of being either one with you. I'd rather be your delicious dimsum dumpling (-;
2007-10-01 16:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be the dumper because then I wont have to wonder why they broke up with me and if I did dump them then that means I would have wanted it over. Not saying I don't care about the other person its just know one really likes to be dumped.
2007-09-29 07:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMPER 4 sure
Dumpee always has the mind games that go on and is more emotional. Dumper is also in control of the situation so less vulnerable.
2007-09-29 07:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by AAAA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I would rather that the relationship is successful and lasts forever. That is what I am looking for. Life dosent always work out that way...sometimes the guys take a week or longer to decide if they want to call you, sometimes we say and do all the wrong things...its not as clear as I would like it to be. I dont want the word dump to be used at all...I dont like it either way. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-29 15:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always been the dumpee except for one time.
I hated hurting her feelings, but I didn't think we had enough in common.
I will have to be the dumper soon unless my wishes come true and the other one here does it to me.
2007-09-29 07:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
>i love dumpling,too.
>as for me dumper and dumpee is the same...
>the important here what lesson did you learn for being dumper / dumpee.
>who goes first and who receive and for what reason why ...
>depends what scenario that lead to end id being dumpee /dumper...
>i already experienced both the result is till the same...
>as long you learned your lesson then you know what to do next...before you see yourself to be or not to be ....
2007-09-29 07:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by bonita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd hate to be both, unless I were the dumper and I felt they deserved to get dumped.
2007-09-29 07:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be the dumper, Its worse being the dumpee= )
2007-09-29 07:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id rather be the dumper because you have alot less chance of getting hurt right!!
2007-09-29 07:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋