What I mean is that have you ever been on a date and your date tries to get in your pants and you get scared and think he might hit you so you give in?Could that be date rape?
2007-09-29 07:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet Melissa 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thats how Pretty mama damn it got me. i don't consider that date rape she has to keep her ho's in line.i like it rough!
2007-09-29 07:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't experienced that
personally. But I do personally know a few people who have.
And your suspicions are correct;
this is date rape. But it is truly recommended that you still say no..because what if your fears were off? Never assume what someone might do. Always let them know that you are not wanting to participate in that type of activity so that you can at least confirm your fears. Otherwise, you may have just given in to their advances for nothing. If they continue after they've heard you clearly tell them that you did no give your consent then this now become an unmistakable situation where the activity of rape did occur.
You can't go to the police and explain how you thought that someone was going to kill you then have them arrested for murder. Follow the logic?
Well, I wish you the very best.
And I'm truly sorry for your misfortunes and ordeals. I sincerely hope you come to realize that all men are not like those jerks. Please talk to a counselor about this, as these things have a way of eating away at your psyche. Wishing you plenty of love, peace and happiness for the remainder of your life. God bless you.
2007-09-29 14:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by sylvester m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is messed up if a guy ever acts like that you should get the hell away from him. I mean never call or be around him again!! That is wrong to treat a date like that. When I go on a date with a woman it is because I am interested in her and want to get to know her better. Yeah I will think she is attractive but that is no reason or excuse to mistreat a woman like that. Guys like that are jackasses and I hate to say it but women seem to fall for them or go for them 95% of the time. I would be so ashamed of myself if I ever did anything like that. Some guys think that just because you go to dinner and do something like a movie or anything and they pay for it, it gives them a right to get in your pants. That is just not right, and that's why I say you should get to know someone a little bit before you allow yourself to be alone with them. Hey, I have been taken advantage of on dates, but in a different way. I have gone out and taken them to dinner, and other things before and them after 2 or 3 nice fun times together and me paying the way for her and myself, she says she is not interested and or she just sees me as a friend. That after she has led me on for a week or two. That makes me just as mad, and I feel hurt and taken advantage of. Yet any guy that would do what you said should be shot. I think that could be date rape if you asked him to please stop and said no to him, but he continued anyway. That is not right for a guy to be that hostile and mean to a woman he supposedly is having feelings for. They did that just to get you in a vulnerable position and take advantage of you. I am so sorry!
2007-09-29 14:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha no i've never been afraid of being hit by my date. But sometimes I do feel like guys only ask me out because of what they might get after the date, But I surprise them with nothing= )
2007-09-29 14:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,I've never been taken advantage of on a date but,I did have lots of trouble in the past with other guys trying to hit on my dates or girlfriends.It's just not worth it to take a lady anywhere these days without that happening.
2007-09-29 21:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by The Chosen One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consented at all, it is not considered in the eyes of the law. However, if he coerced you into saying yes then I would say that he needed his testes chopped off.
2007-09-29 14:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and Yes. I am much more aggressive now. Hit him in the OO's. That will teach him.
2007-09-29 14:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sunset 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you say "no" and they don't stop, that's wrong. Yes, that can be date rape.
2007-09-29 14:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, did you tell him no or did you just give in? - no is no plain and simple, but if you didn't say no how is he to know you don't want to go further? if you said no but he still insisted then yeah it was rape
but no that hasn't happened to me, thank goodness
2007-09-29 14:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by GOLDENFAIRY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah not ever, my special girl can cuff me to the bed and take advantage of me anytime and i will never resist her.
2007-09-30 01:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋