Is anyone here attracted to who they can't have?

Question

And what is your and their sun sign if you know.

I'm a Libra and their a Gemini.

Answer 1

I believe we are all attracted to someone we cant have that is how it works you always want what you cant have then when you get it sometimes your like did i really want that
Im a Gemini

Answer 2

I spent most of my adult life being attracted to a woman I could not have. Me airies; her pisces. Does that really make a difference? I don't believe in astrology, so cannot even spell it for sure.
If I had it to do over, I would force my brain to shut off all thoughts about her. We always defend ourselves by saying "My heart has a mind of its own." With apologies to singer Connie Francis, the human heart CAN be controlled by feeding wisdom and logic into the human brain.
If we think we love somebody we really cannot have, our minds shut out all those who we might have if we tried.
What you are reading here is the wisdom of an older person who is looking back. (I'm over 60 now, though it's hard to believe that's possible because it was just yesterday that I was pretty young. How did that happen, anyway?)

Answer 3

(sigh) Yes. An adorable co-worker of mine tortures my existence everyday. I'm so deeply in love with her that I think about her all the time outside of work. But she's married. I've known that she's attached since I started working with her almost a year ago, yet that fact never seems to deter me from thinking romantic thoughts about her.

I'm a Leo and she hasn't had a birthday since I started working there late February. Maybe you can help me figure out what her Sun probably is. :)

Answer 4

Yeah, but I don't pay much attention to signs.

I'm a Sagittarius, and I was pursuing a Capricorn. No matter how much money I would spend for her or how often I would break my back for her, she would not be loyal and would never hang out with me if there was no money involved.

So, although I'm not into this sort of thing, I'll let y'all know that these two don't mix :-p

Answer 5

Yes, unfortunately I am. I'm a Aries and don't know what sign she is. She now lives far away from me so it's not so bad anymore. I can never tell her how I feel. Sometimes the urge is unbearable to contact her and tell her, but she can never know. Why does this happen to people?

Answer 6

First of all, you're never attracted to someone you "can't have". I mean, who SAYS you can, or you can't -- "have" someone? On the other hand, the attraction has to be equal, or at least mutual, or at least meet each other half-way...or something like that. There's only two people in the world who can tell you that you CAN or you CAN'T have someone: (1) YOU, primarily. and (2) the other person, the object of your attraction. That's it.

Answer 7

Yes, Im a Gemini and he's a Taurus

Answer 8

I don't know their sign and I'm not giving you mine. I don't find myself very attractive but i see many women that arouse my interests, but are too far from my grasp. If your attracted to someone i think you'll still have a chance to pursue it regardless of zodiac signs or any superstitious knowledge like that. It's usually infatuation that i feel, which fades rather quickly.

Answer 9

I'm a virgo. I always catch myself staring at a person or man for quite some times, and he or she turns out to be a sagittarius.

I love men who have sagi-type of body , which means long legs, skinny, broad shoulder, long hands.....hornky nose( probably)...you know. They may not look handsome but I love the 'something' they always have.

Answer 10

One of the biggest attractions I've ever had was to an Aquarius and I'm a Leo/Virgo. What does this mean?