Ok one of my past college teachers from school last semester and I are friends but not close close. I have been out to eat w/her a couple of times and she invited me over to her house to see her new baby. I have given her 3 baby gifts also. We talk alot through email but ever since school started and she had her baby which is her first, she doesn't write me over email as much as she used to. I also know her husband and work with him. Well this is my question, her birthday is this month and I thought about getting her a little card and a gift certificate to her fav. restaurant. I dont know if I shouldor not though. I was gonna ask her if I could come by her office at school to visit or if she would mind. I think she's a really nice person and friend, although we aren't very close. What doyou think I should do? Thanks for your advice!
2007-09-29 05:04:24 · 7 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
if you aren't close, which you have stressed repeatedly i think it might be a bad idea.
2007-10-03 04:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Loren S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you don't feel comfortable getting a gift,sending a card is always nice.
It's informal,yet shows the other person you care and think about them enough to send one.
And gift certificates are also great too,as the person can choose what they want to do with it.
2007-09-29 05:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs_Golub 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all... if there is any particular reason in which she may be avoiding you, then don't push yourself on her. But with a new baby, your time becomes extremely precious. So as long as you let it be known that you support her and if she needs any help your there, then it wont seem as if your demanding her time. So be supportive, be a friend, and she may need the time away from home.
2007-09-29 05:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by sonshiyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to go ahead and get her the present. It seems to me that she might just be really busy with this semester classes. I would stop by and give it to her. It seems to me she might really appreciate it that you would go out of your way to give her a present. Do remember that being a mom and having a job is like having two FULL-TIME jobs so she probably just really busy. Your gift sounds like a great idea so that she can get a night out.
2007-09-29 05:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tha one and only Victoria!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simlpe
love is a cureall.
and this existence needs more of it/1
you love yourself, and you are fond of her....
do you have children? the first....and a three month old that is a major responsibilty........time energy!
Yes must definitely send her some love....card ,flowers vitamins......
so yeah !!! :-)
could you see any real reason why you should not!?
2007-09-29 05:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by beantown10955 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should do it. it sounds like a healthy relationship. at least i would. The worst that could happen is her not liking the gift.
2007-09-29 05:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just send a card
2007-09-29 05:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by OCSreject 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋