This is how Lgbt feel, please read from a homosexual pointo of view about a heterosexual?

Question

1. What do you think caused your heterosexuality?
2. When and how did you first decide you were a heterosexual?
3. Is it possible that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?
4. Is it possible that your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?
5. Isn't it possible that all you need is a good gay lover?
6. Heterosexuals have histories of failure in gay relationships. Do you think you may have turned to heterosexuality out of fear of rejection?
7. If you've never slept with a person of the same sex, how do you know that you wouldn't prefer that?
8. If heterosexuality is normal, why are a disproportionate number of mental patients heterosexual?
9. To whom have you disclosed your heterosexual tendencies? How did they react?
10. Your heterosexuality doesn't offend me so long as you don't try to force it on me. Why do you people feel compelled to seduce others into your sexual orientation?
11. If you should choose to nurture children, would you want them to be heterosexual, knowing the problems they would face?
12. The great majority of child molesters are heterosexuals. Do you really consider it safe to expose your children to heterosexual teachers?
13. Why do you insist on being so obvious, and making a public spectacle of your heterosexuality? Can't you just be who you are and keep it quiet?
14. How can you ever hope to become a whole person if you limit yourself to a compulsive, exclusive, heterosexual object choice, and remain unwilling to explore and develop your normal, healthy, God-given homosexual potential?
15. Heterosexuals are noted for assigning themselves and each other narrowly restricted, stereotyped sex-roles. Why do you cling to such unhealthy role playing?
16. How can you enjoy a fully satisfying sexual experience or deep emotional rapport with a person of the opposite sex, when the obvious, biological, and temperamental differences between you are so vast? How can a man understand what pleases a woman sexually, or vice versa?
17. Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?
18. With all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?
19. Shouldn't you ask the fringe straight types, like swingers, Hell's Angels, and Jesus freaks, to conform more? Wouldn't that improve your image?
20. How could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual, considering the menace of overpopulation?
21. There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Techniques have been developed with which you might be able to change if you really want to. Have you considered trying aversion therapy?
22. Do heterosexuals hate or distrust others of the same sex? Is that what makes them heterosexual?
23. Why are heterosexuals so promiscuous?
24. Could you really trust a heterosexual therapist to be objective and unbiased? Don't you fear he/she might be inclined to influence you in the direction of her/his own feelings?
If you really took this questionnaire seriously, right now, you're probably feeling a bit depressed, defensive, and maybe even a little ashamed. Well, now imagine that this were real, not just a little exercise. Rather, it was all of society, your family, your friends asking you these questions and really wanting the answers. Not only is your own knowledge of your own sexuality, feelings, and body questioned, but now you must defend a whole group of people who happen to have one similarity with you, most of whom you've never even meet because to fail to do so in any way, in anyone's eyes is to say that you are *fill in the stereotype or negative image*, just like they are.
Now you have a better idea of how LGBT persons feel every day.

Answer 1

Shelley M... if you honestly think that most of us haven't tried desperately to change ourselves, you are sadly mistaken...

You don't know the pain and the tears and the fear, that comes from something inside of us that CANNOT, no matter how desperately we have tried, to change.

I hate that haughty attitude... why don't you try changing your sexual orientation? You'll see how easy it is.

I've known gay guys (one of them personally) who have COMMITED SUICIDE because they couldn't change themselves. So shut the hell up! You don't even have a clue.

Answer 2

We are all sinners, in need of a Savior. No one is "better" than anyone else. Just some of us have been saved, and some of us haven't. I'm going to be HONEST here, if you beg my pardon, but there is ONE thing that bothers me about gays LIKE YOU(and I'm not talking about ALL gays) . And that is the fact that they have to keep announcing it to everyone, as if we all just need to know it. You insist on parading it in front of everyone. Why? Why is it so important that everyone knows you're gay? And why is it always the main topic on your agenda? Is it all you actually think about, and is it all you have in your life? If it is, then that's pretty sad. There is more to life than sex, my friend. You come on here, spouting off about yourself, then get upset if you get answers you don't want to hear. Well, you are just setting yourself up for it by doing that. If you don't like what Christians have to say about homosexuality, then why do you continually hang out where you KNOW they are? It's like you want them to confront you on it all the time. YOU are the one who brought it up, not us. Then you act like we are attacking you. And you are playing the victim over and over again. Sorry, but that's the truth. Here's a clue. STOP BRINGING IT UP EVERY MINUTE. I don't think I'm superior to anyone. I believe that sin is sin because that is what God says it is. You don't accept that. That's why you keep coming around Christians and wanting to "change our minds" or something. It's not going to happen. And if you think we're being "holier than thou" or whatever you think, it really doesn't matter. It only matters what God thinks. He is the Judge, not me. I'm just the messenger. I only use HIS Word, not my own. and remember, YOU are the one asking. He has already judged what is sin and what isn't. If you have a problem with that, then your beef is with God Almighty. You said, "be honest." So I was. And I DON'T HATE YOU!! God Bless

Answer 3

The thing is, you COULD take each of these questions seriously, if you were the sort of person who based their ideas about a whole group of people on what one or two people say or do ...

AND, it was a very amusing read!

Good on you for doing this, I really enjoyed it :-)

Answer 4

That was awesome, me being a lesbian who has had to face some of those questions and situations I totally understand and your right maybe heterosexuals should take a second and realize what they are doing in asking these ridiculous questions.

Answer 5

Nice!

It really showed how homosexuals and other groups are singled out, sometimes in non-obvious ways. Some of it was just so silly I laughed.

Answer 6

Not hard to answer!

Point well taken and well put. Just remember there are many humans (hetro) that support you.

Have a good weekend!

(Sorry the not hard to answer was meant to come off ironic/humorous.... don't think that it quite made it.)

Answer 7

Heres one - Have you ever considered trying to be less heterosexual for your family?

Answer 8

These questions, written by Martin Rochlin Ph.D.
in 1977, expose bigotry as much today as it did then.

Answer 9

Brilliant!

Edit: If you think homosexuality is a choice then I challenge you to suddenly change your orientation.

Not so easy, is it?

Answer 10

All sex is a choice. If it isn't then we have a bigger problem. Seek truth first and it will show you that if you choose to acturally engage in any kind of sex, you still must initiate your body to do so. If you cannot control this urge then you need to seek council immediatly. Calling someone's self after their desires could be taken to extreams too. You are a child of God made in His image. The flesh does not control the mind unless you allow it to. You are suppose to be spiritual first and that manifest out through the flesh. If you let the flesh dictate who you are then suppose you are a back yard pooper. What do you call your title then? All sex is a choice.