portrayed to others. what can you do if that makes you angry, especially if you feel the portrayal is wrong?
also how do i handle a person who percieves me like mel gibson, and this makes you confused and angry, because you don't want to be percieved as that?
for one, i don't like mel gibson, and second, i don't look like him....so are they saying my characteristics are the same as his?
can anyone advise?
2007-09-29 02:37:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
be yourself and dont bother what people thikn of you.
2007-09-29 02:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by HI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mel Gibson, actually is a very admirable man. He did a movie about Jesus, and was snubbed by Hollywood, and still made billions on it..his intentions were good, and he was called a 'racist' because he went off on the Jews in Hollywood, after they snubbed him over his belief in Jesus. He has eight kids, and still married to the same woman, He is good looking, extremely intellegent, and very talented. If they percieve you as him, and are referring to these truths about him, then they are tring to compliment you. People say some of the most stupid things at times, and when they say it to be nasty, feel sorry for them, that they have to attack you to make themselves feel better, and for their lack of manners. Many people through life, will compare you to others, it is just human nature, and no one is singling you out neccessarily. Them them thanks, and forget they said it. People are intitled to their moronic opinions, and the more you make of it, the more they will say it. I have been portrayed to be the most horrible person in the world where I live,..and tho it hurts me, I have my small circle of friends who know the truth, and stand up for me..the other ones, well, let God and Jesus judge them. I ignore them and so should you. You could also just ask them, just why do they think that. Many women find Mel Gibson quite handsome
2007-09-29 10:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to laugh about the Mel Gibson thing but hey, it's better than being told you look like Paris Hilton...
Just go ahead and tell them to f--- off, and use deadly force if necessary. This has been going on far too long and I want you to go on and get that anger out , give it to the ones who truly deserve it, though.
Peace(not) love retribution or restitution
2007-09-29 11:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to people, they will know who you really are.
2007-09-29 10:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by mike 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋