If you want to humble the ego of your spouse, what is the most practical way to do it ?
Give some creative ideas on making fun of your spouse without hurting them ?
Give some examples of practical jokes that can be played on your spouse ?
2007-09-29 01:54:26 · 10 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is there no place for humour in married life ? Can anger not be expressed in a humourous way ?
2007-09-29 02:36:26 · update #1
You have to be original, innovative, spontenous in such situations. You can steal, borrow or use usedup ideas if your spouse is even reasonably intelligent. If she's stupid, well, u dont need to have brains at all.
2007-10-01 02:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure there is room for humour .. but you're not talking about genuine humour - you are talking about disguising your anger as humour .. and your objective is to "humble the ego" .. ouch.
No matter how sweetly or lightly you frame this letter, you're basically saying you want to hurt your spouse ("not TOO much" of course) and you want to humiliate him/her.
What I understand from this is that you don't seem to care very much about this person's feelings. Why on earth would you want to make fun of your life partner??? Why don't you just go stand in front of a mirror and call yourself all the things you want to call your partner? After all, it's a partnership so it's 50/50, right?
Instead of this twisted form of abuse, why don't you just gather your courage and talk honestly to your spouse about what is bothering you? And if you can't bring yourself to do that, then please do speak to a counselor or psychotherapist and at least understand yourself a bit better and get to the root of why you feel the need to inflict hurt on your partner. There are lots of counseling centres, free telephone helplines etc that you can call and talk to a professional about the anger you're feeling. You might feel a lot better both about yourself and your partner, if you can process your anger and frustration and deal with it in a healthier way.
2007-09-30 07:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by askios007 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you ever want to do that??
If I ever did that, I would end up in divorce court, How old are you, you sound pretty immature to want to play these childish games with your spouse, marriage is not like childhood, marriage is a lot more than that, and if you feel like you have to play games to get back at your spouse, maby counseling is in the pitchure!
2007-09-29 02:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
He has an ego that is strong. Why mess with this. Surely you knew this when you married him. Just be strong yourself and be the better person.
2007-09-29 02:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Life lover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True love is best humour.
2007-10-02 18:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Honey786 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite a male friend over and leave them alone. Have him try to put the make on your wife and see how far it goes. If it goes far enough you can join them for the fun.
2007-09-29 01:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if your husband likes cookies buy cookies and then hide them then buy a brand new cookie jar that oinks or moos so when they go for a cookie they get the jar to moo or oink at them for no readon b/c you hid the cookies LOL I did that one on my sister ( I almost peed my pants when I heard the cookie jar) she was not happy to sayt he least :)
2007-09-29 02:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be very honest with you, what gos around comes around, did you know God does have a sense of humor??
2007-09-29 02:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i always enjoyed masterbating in my ex's shoes. but that was more anger than a practical joke.
2007-09-29 02:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
watch episodes of Jackass, And Homewrecker. see if that gives u any ideas.
2007-09-29 01:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by mr.chicken1 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋