..your loved one in a tragic accident, would you be willing to move on with your life?
2007-09-29 00:02:40 · 21 answers · asked by battgirl 7 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
funny mr frenchman, funny. i just logged in and won't be staying long..
...and a french who loathes English should correct my grammar...
2007-09-29 00:20:13 · update #1
dear grouch, i'm saving my curses after Ramadan..he's not worth breaking my fast =)
2007-09-29 00:50:39 · update #2
I shall be deeply wounded, but the wound will heal in time. And like it or not, we move on.
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What's this with this Jean-Marc? Is he making a career out of being a nuisance in every page?
Flash, I have to go now. I will stomp at this Jean-Marc in my trashcan later, ok? Take it easy.
2007-09-29 00:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Aref H4 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No choice battgirl but to move on. I lost a very dear friend 3 years ago when I just arrived in Australia. He was my friend since we were kids. He was the godfather also of my eldest. He always visited me in Manila when I was in college and made sure that he visited if I am in the province. He can go straight to my room if I am in the province. He was well known to my parents and siblings and me to his family also. He visited me a week before I left the Philippines. Unfortunately, he died in a tragic car crash. His head was blown off.
I cried when I heard the news from my brother. I cried when I visited his grave on my second day of visit in the Philippines recently. I cried when I visited his parents and siblings. But I have to move on.
2007-09-29 09:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to what I've learned in my medical course:
there's Five Stages in Coping with Dying..
D = Denial
A = Anger
B = Bargaining
D = Depression
A = Acceptance
If I have undergone until the last stage of coping then I think I can move on with my life.
2007-09-29 02:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my mom and brother(not in tragic accidents though).
took a long while for me and the rest of the family to move on
2007-09-29 04:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel-ene 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most people would move on with their lives. If it were to happen to me it would take a long time for the wounds to heal.
Jean Marc I
"typical fillipinas questions
you must be well paid to be on the computer so many hours of the day
i live in your country and know you but it is obvious that you know nothing else"
'Typical Filipina's question.
You must be well paid to be on the computer so many hours of the day.
I live in your country and know you (sic) but it is obvious that you don't know anything else.' (sic?)
Once again, people who live in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones.
It's ok Aref H4 I will take over for you.
2007-09-29 01:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by PC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Battgirl, there is no other way. Or else, you will have to join your loved one in his grave.
This reminds me of a typical joke made out of funeral scenes.
Spouse, as the casket is lowered to the ground: Huwag, huwag mo akong iiwan. Huhuuuuu. (Don't leave me)
Naughty friends: Oh, sigue, itutulak ka na namin, para magkasama pa rin kayo (Okay, if you wish, we can push you down and you be buried with him, so you can still be together).
2007-10-04 16:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. according to psychiatrists/psychologists/counselors grief has stages. it's good to go through these stages. unless you have been through them then you wont be able to go on normally. i am not really familiar exactly what these stages are but my point is that you should try to live as normally as you can. tragedy is something that we cannot forget (even if we are willing to), but it is something that we should accept and live with. the spirit of the person who died won't rest if he/she sees that what happened to them causes (additional) emotional/psychological damage from their death. i think you need professional help if you cannot cope with this thing. good luck.
2007-10-02 17:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by philosophical beaver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would depend on how strong I am going to be. But reastically, it might end my life so soon as what every failure does to me. I hope I won't be like this if that happens.
2007-10-01 04:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. life goes on for me..whether i'd like to or not.
but I read an article about this girl who still hasn't moved on after her boyfriend commited suicide two years ago. she still hasn't managed to recover from that incident & up until now, she still hasn't figured out how to move on w/ her life.
2007-09-30 12:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, but you must mourn and then heal. I would join a support group so as to not feel alone.
2007-09-29 00:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋