ima 17yr old female muslim id like to get married to a 19ry old my parents dont concent as hes black and hes not rich but i want to be with him because of his deen, hes a great mulism b4 i met him he didnt believe in god, i thought him how to pray and and what islams about and i fell in love with him. but because im not 18 can i marry him?
2007-09-29 00:01:19 · 10 answers · asked by lilstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you live in the U.S. you can not marry him until you are 18. You will have to wait. What's the rush anyway?
2007-09-29 00:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nine for a girl and 12 for a boy is what it takes in Islam to say "Yes we do".
But The rules and regulations on the government scale is 18 years a must to say you are a major.
Take care and go about it safe and clean after all the first to be converted to Islam was "Black" and a slave as well.
Explain this to your parents and let God decide the rest.
Remember one thing, who ever you marry in the end, you will start to love, when the first jackpot comes rolling out.
Then the next little one will watch and say:I love you baba and mama dear.
You to love as you go your way.
2007-09-29 07:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young.
If this relationship is right it will stand the test of time until you are old enough to marry without your parents consent.
Also time may convince your parents that this relationship is right for you.
Please don't do anything silly like running away to get married. There is a high chance that it will not work as you are so young, and it will be difficult for you to cope financially and socially without your family. Wait. Wait until you are mature enough, and financially independant from your parents.
2007-10-02 03:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young, why don't you enjoy your life first before getting married. Am not against your special friend, but why don't you enjoy yourselves first before getting married. At your age, there are lots of things to do aside from having a serious relationship with opposite sex.
2007-10-03 04:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by mmvieph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Don't listen to the Doug guy, he doesn't seemt to have any clue).
I guess you'll have to sweat it out for another year, girl. Good on you for being commited to your faith. It'll be hard without your parent's support, but true love in a marriage works wonders. So go for it once the year's over, I say!
And it doesn't matter what your age is for it to be succesful.
2007-09-29 07:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you give it a little time. You have a lot of changing and growing in the next few years. You two may not grow together. With a little time and assuming you two continue dating, your parents may approve of him. Perhaps, they are unsure of his devotion to the faith (I'm assuming that's important to them and you as well).
2007-09-29 07:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by jehovah_nostra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not marry without your parents approval , if u did u will regret , because u will lose your parents for unknown person.
u will say u love him & u changed him , but keep in mind that he is teenager& his opinions & beliefs is not sure &clear .
& if he really loves you , heshould insist on your parents approval to avoid future proplems between u & your family.
& keep in mind that in islam it is forbbiden for a virigin to marry without her father approval.
2007-10-02 02:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by ISLAMIAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Praying and family supporting are very different thinks if that maters you.
2007-09-29 07:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Zarzoorner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run off and they will never no leave a lovely note behind
2007-09-30 15:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're stupid if you get married at 17...no offense
do not get married until you are at least 25
2007-09-29 07:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋