My ex boyfriend and I broke up 4 yrs ago (we were together 4 yrs). Since then, we've been in contact on and off just as good old friends. He lives in another continent. He broke it up with me cause he couldnt get his head around marriage and I felt one day Id like a child. Anyhow, thing is I was very close to his parents & even grandparents. Recently his mother was in my city for a visit and we met up a few times. She was raving at 'how glamourous I look' and took pictures. She invited me to visit them & stay in her place for a few mths. She wanted to know if Id met anyone recently. My exs 2 best mates have just settled down. A few days go she emailed meto say she had shown the photos to my ex and noe 'hes more & more interested in visiting the country I live in '. Am I imagining it or is she trying to get us married? Is this bizarre? Please opinions on this!!!
2007-09-27 22:14:47 · 6 answers · asked by profe 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
These people knew you 4 years and they liked you!!!! Consider yourself blessed. Some inlaws hate their sons wives forever and are always causing problems. Enjoy her company, maybe meeting his relatives was the sole reason the universe allowed you to meet him. Cherish her, she sounds like a great person and lord only knows we could all meet more people like her and his grandparents. Have fun and do something nice for her. As for her trying to get you back with her son, just ignore it if that is not what you want. If he is using his mom to get to you, just remain calm, smile, pretend you don't suspect anything and change the subject off him. Don't talk about him if you don't want him back as all you say will be reported to him so be careful what you wish for.
2007-09-27 22:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously still in love with this guy and I think that you are deluding yourself. You are looking for every scrap of evidence that she throws you to turn it into something you WANT to believe rather than something that is actually true. Leave this guy alone to get on with his own life and tell his meddling mother to f uck off.
2007-09-27 23:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you both are 'just good friends', what is the harm of meeting up again and enjoying friendly company?
If you feel more that just a 'friend', think hard before deciding one way or the other.
finally ... perhaps 'mother' sees something positive in both of you that neither of you see ... yet !!
2007-09-28 00:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not imagining it and she is definitely playing matchmaker here! She obviously regards you as perfect daughter-in-law material and her son as an idiot to let you go. Be flattered - I would.
2007-09-27 22:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by alex s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my parents with my ex. they've been really nice to my recent girlfriends but you can tell they'd rather have ms. x anyday!
normal? who knows. flattering for you? damn straight! you must've done something right.
sounds like the balls is in your court, time to line up your shot.
Good Luck!
2007-09-27 22:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by m s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on whether you let it happen and if you have moved on with your life. Or do you want to get back with him!
2007-09-27 22:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋